Help!

[BRONCOS15]

So I'm 13 year old guy. There is this guy. Weve been best friends for a long time. Lately since like August we've been kissing and having oral. He's the only guy I like and I find him extremely sexy. The question is am I gay? And I don't know if he likes me back or is just using me?

[Harley Quinn]

So I'm 13 year old guy. There is this guy. Weve been best friends for a long time. Lately since like August we've been kissing and having oral. He's the only guy I like and I find him extremely sexy. The question is am I gay? And I don't know if he likes me back or is just using me?

Liking one person doesn't make you gay, it doesn't make you straight, it doesn't actually make you anything. You have plenty of time to figure that out, you're young and a lot of hormones are rushing around your body right now.

If you don't know whether he likes you back, you need to ask him because we can't give you that answer - we aren't him. As for whether he's using you, he might well be, but again, you won't know until you have a conversation about it with him.

[Jmurphy97]

it could be just a phase or hormones

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, since you're in puberty, and you hormones are raging, there's no way to know for sure. If you want to label yourself, you should do it after puberty, once your hormones have settled.

Also, you didn't give us enough information on this guy, for us to say whether or not he's using you. If you think he's using you, then stop hanging around him. If you think he feels the same way about you, as you do him, then pursue a relationship with this guy, if you have strong feelings for him.

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You decide; that's the only way you'll get the answer you're looking for