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Ehrmm
January 12th, 2013, 10:03 AM
Sup!

My name is Sjoerd, I'm dutch, and I'm 15 years old.
There's this girl at my school I've been having a huge crush on for.. say 2 years now. She's stunning! But in those 2 years
she's been giving me.. "Signs?" i quess you would say, atleast i think their signs. Small stuff like making just a little bit more eye contact with me, or a bit bigger things, as in small conversations she started.

See my locker is about 7-8 feet away from hers, and afther school, once she just asked me: Hey, your Sjoerd right?" From her locker. Me: Yeah, your Selina right? Selina: Hmhm, your a friend of Lukas? Me: Yeah where mates... And then she took her books and left, saying: Alright cya. afther that i was like, was that my chance? did i mess up? I did bad didn't I?! but just like 2 weeks later when we where standing in a group with some of my friends, a friend of mine asked her to take him to the train station, and she was like: Sure" hey Sjoerd where do you live actually? Afther that she asked me if i was going on the school trip, wich I'm not, she seemed a bit dissapointed though I'm srsly bad at analising.

Although she doesn't only do it on me, she's quite open, and flirty i quess you would say but i haven't ever seen her ask any other guy then ME where he lives, or what my name was even though i knew she already knew it :P

Are these signs she has a crush on me?She just likes me? Or am i just over reacting? Over analising? I'm confused.Though she got me to like her, i want her number, but i just really dont wanna mess this one up, she's awesome.

Were both often in groups, really doesn't make it easier >.<
Though ever time she's in a group, i kinda hold back a little, not wanting to say anything she might hate or say anything stupid, everytime she's around i really think before i talk...I'm not sure if thats a good thing, is it?

NOTE: At the start of last year i felt good and walked up to her when she was talking to Lukas, and i said: Hey you got a sister? I know a girl looking just like you. She laughed and walked away with her friend. Even though i looked very different back then, she maybe remember that "move?" and ended up regretting it since i look alot better, laugh more, and am more confident at the time.

Btw there's a party coming up next Friday, I'd hope for reply before it :S ill tell you guys how it went when I'm back ;D
Thanks alot for your time, and thanks for trying to help out, thanks for reading this, and thankyou for doing this.


Kind Regards, Sjoerd

StoppingTime
January 12th, 2013, 10:14 AM
Introductions :arrow: Relationships and Dating. This question is more relevant in that section, and you'll get better answers.

Desuetude
January 12th, 2013, 10:24 AM
To put it simply all this worrying and planning about when the right time is and what you should do isn't going to get you anywhere. Girls like guys that are confident, when you next have a chance -preferably when you're both alone so as not to pressurise- you should ask her if she'd like to go to this party with you or out to the cinema or even just for her number to arrange something. I know you're afraid of messing things up but if you keep reading too much into this nothings going to get done and you're going to be stressing out. You can't help what she remembers about you but you can let her get to know the person you are now. If she likes you then she should give you a chance, if not then I guess you're going to have to accept her decision.