am i the only one

[ackmedsgirl666]

who hates family members or friends of the person you are dating and they constantly judge you and make you feel worthless.... like shit....
and wont let past mistakes go even if your partner has?

i am having a hard time stomaching this..... like alot :(

[Gandalf]

who hates family members or friends of the person you are dating and they constantly judge you and make you feel worthless.... like shit....
and wont let past mistakes go even if your partner has?

i am having a hard time stomaching this..... like alot :(

This is actually just to me, a normal part of relationships although it would depend on how far your family members take it, if they are rude to you again calmly say that you are happy and that is all that matters and just ask them to stop, I know it hurts but they won't stop until they know that you will ignore there words. To me it's just bullying.

I know you've had a difficult relationship in some ways but if you are safe and happy you can blissfully ignore your family members, they may just be jealous that you are happy and living your life for you.

Hope I've helped :)

[FreeFall]

My boyfriend's sister, 23 or something eh it doesn't matter she's a hag, has some personal vendetta against me that I don't even know why. She's the reason I joined VT actually, because my boyfriend didn't even know she'd stolen his balls and stuck them in her purse.
Got them back after hell and such, but damn. She hates me with a passion.

I've stopped going to their family functions and stopped trying to have a relationship with any of them, hell my bf has grown to hate his family. They decided to throw out racial slurs of my being mixed race. They called me the n word girlfriend to his face, while I wasn't there. No one, ever dares call me the n word. To any of us. Hell hath no fury when that happens! So, they hate me even more because of their own stupidity and hatred, which is funny because they actually used to like me. But oh well. His mom, his dad, his uncle, his many sisters, they have no place in my life so I just don't care what they do. They stress him him with it, but that only fuels his desire to get the hell away from them and get far away, of course I'll go too.

When people are that selfish, that self-centered and that uncaring about toher people's feelings and feel they have a say in a relationship that isn't there's? Not worth it. It sucks, really it does, but in the end what makes you happy and healthy is for the best. That feeling will die unless you keep hearing about their disdain for you or you try to make them like you. When people don't want to like you, they will make up an excuse. Even stupid one's like "her eyelashes are too long" direct quote from my bf's bitch sister. Damn my long eyelashes, they upset her.