Expirementing gone wrong :/

[SirMazing]

Today I was going to have my friend sleep over and I was planning on expirementing and comparing with him (he didn't know), but he didn't show up. Now what?
:mad:

[tundravortex]

than do it again just wait alittle bit

[SirMazing]

than do it again just wait alittle bit

The thing is, well I'm the type of person who tryes something and if it doens't work I'm just like OH, F THIS! So really I feel like It'll turn out the same way. Plus I've never done this expirementing, comparing thing. So in your opinion I should still try again, right?

[Troy35216]

why didn't he show up? If he said "i'm not coming cuz i don't wanna mess around" then yeh you should give up. but if he said, "i'm not coming cuz i'm sick" "I'm not coming cuz I'm grounded" or something like that, then just reschedule and stop stressing. (does he know what you have planned for the sleepover?)

[Jake.the.muss]

Love the life you live, live the life you love

[tundravortex]

The thing is, well I'm the type of person who tryes something and if it doens't work I'm just like OH, F THIS! So really I feel like It'll turn out the same way. Plus I've never done this expirementing, comparing thing. So in your opinion I should still try again, right?

well on this one its your choice if you want to keep trying and keep trying or you can give up right than and there so you pick (try or f this thing)

[SirMazing]

why didn't he show up? If he said "i'm not coming cuz i don't wanna mess around" then yeh you should give up. but if he said, "i'm not coming cuz i'm sick" "I'm not coming cuz I'm grounded" or something like that, then just reschedule and stop stressing. (does he know what you have planned for the sleepover?)


Well here's how it went, I wanted him to sleep over for the first time, so last week I asked if he wanted to sleep this weekend (aka today). So today I asked him again if he can and he said he's not home because he's out with his friends. So I texted him telling him to text me when he knows the answer. He hasn't replied. I haven't expiremented or compared before really. So honestly I didn't know how to tell him. So I was planning to have him over and watch a movie (since there isn't much we can do at my house). Then over the movie I would have started to ask him if he's ever been curious or j/o or expiremented, ect. Basically I don't I was gonna see what happens. Also I don't watch porn and I don't want to (I say this because many people end up experimenting over watching porn).... :what:

well on this one its your choice if you want to keep trying and keep trying or you can give up right than and there so you pick (try or f this thing)



See the worst thing is I don't know what will happen, I wanna keep trying. But the thing is that it can go good or it can go real bad, if I knew what will happen, I'd know already weather to keep trying or not. You know? :confused:


Please stop double posting. Just edit the first one. -StoppingTime

[Troy35216]

okay so it wasn't a definite planned thing that he backed out on. he never said for sure he was coming. plan something more definite and specific for next time.

[SirMazing]

okay so it wasn't a definite planned thing that he backed out on. he never said for sure he was coming. plan something more definite and specific for next time.

I wish it was possible. See when I wanna do something, I plan who, what, where, when, ect. Others, especially him are like 'we'll see what happens' plus it'd be nicer if he replied specificly to his texts. Its hard to get a reply from him and if you do, it's very vague. You know what I mean? :mad:

[BakeBake]

You just have to wait until next time.

[Leon03]

I wish it was possible. See when I wanna do something, I plan who, what, where, when, ect. Others, especially him are like 'we'll see what happens' plus it'd be nicer if he replied specificly to his texts. Its hard to get a reply from him and if you do, it's very vague. You know what I mean? :mad:

Maybe he noticed you were stressed about the sleepover thing because you planed every single detail. He might not have felt right even if he had no idea what you were up to.
Next time you should ask him over and let him know what you plan to do together with him. Like watching a movie or playing video games and stuff. Don't think too much about the experimenting - if it happens it's great, if not you had a cool evening with a friend.

[jgjkk]

just don't try too hard

[randomme]

Just wait till next time :P

[staples]

wait

[xJohn]

dunno, kid sounds like a flake

[Xxrdgfinestmxxx]

Just let it happend