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Dunce
January 11th, 2013, 07:00 PM
I'm sorry if this isn't allowed, I've never seen a thread about it so I'm not sure. Please don't reply to this unless you're mature about it..
I like someone, we get on really well, we have a lot in common and I have feelings for this person. We have been talking for ages, but it's sort of a pretend relationship. The feelings are real, but neither of us want commitment and we're kind of like friend w/ benefits, but we haven't done anything. I do trust this person and they respect me. We have a playful relationship and act quite... lustfully towards each other (I suppose, ugh this sounds so weird). Anyway, I know them in real life but they're also on tumblr, and they're going away over the weekend and they asked me to send them pictures while they're gone.
Now, I really want to send pictures, but I have some questions and concerns. I asked what kind of pictures, and the reply was "Face, neck, boobs, bum". I don't know if it's nudes they're looking for, seeing as they asked for face and neck pictures... my first thought was just clothed pictures. I told them I really didn't know and they told me to use my "kinky" imagination... I still don't know :lol:
By the way, trust is not an issue here, this person is basically my best friend.

Also, would it be risky to send them via the internet?


Okay okay, halfway through writing this I realized either way I don't want nudes of me on the net, I still want to send something though. What should I do? :(

By the way** (Edit) even though I'm not sending nudes now, by nudes I meant like me nude, but with things covered by either my hair or my hands, no face showing. I wouldn't go full frontal, actually I know now I wouldn't do either (I know just by writing it out and getting it clear in my head)

ackmedsgirl666
January 11th, 2013, 07:12 PM
well then dont send nudes because pictures can end up being used anywhere on the internet. even if its not your friend whos posting them.... they cam be pulled from the interent and can be used on websites etc... so if you wanna send pics go ahead.. but its probably better to avoid showing nudes.... and im pretty sure you wouldnt want family or friends finding out as they may look at you in a different way... one that has no respect for themself

justinglives
January 11th, 2013, 07:13 PM
it would probably be fine to just send regular pictures... but if you're going to send anything other than face and neck like boobs and bums that can just open up a whole host of problems for you. Google " internet sexting issues". you're exactly right once it is on the Internet it will never never ever ever go away! be careful and protect yourself even know this person is your best friend today you never know what's going to happen tomorrow......

Dunce
January 11th, 2013, 07:22 PM
well then dont send nudes because pictures can end up being used anywhere on the internet. even if its not your friend whos posting them.... they cam be pulled from the interent and can be used on websites etc... so if you wanna send pics go ahead.. but its probably better to avoid showing nudes.... and im pretty sure you wouldnt want family or friends finding out as they may look at you in a different way... one that has no respect for themself
Yes of course, as I said I'm not going to be sending nudes. I'm aware of how quickly things can spread and how they never go away when it's the internet. And if I ever even took nudes of myself they wouldn't have my face in them, if anyone saw them they wouldn't even know it's me. Putting up nudes on the internet, sure the person has no self respect. But sending pictures to someone you're practically in a relationship with, it's risky but certainly not trashy.

it would probably be fine to just send regular pictures... but if you're going to send anything other than face and neck like boobs and bums that can just open up a whole host of problems for you. Google " internet sexting issues". you're exactly right once it is on the Internet it will never never ever ever go away! be careful and protect yourself even know this person is your best friend today you never know what's going to happen tomorrow......
Again, I'm not sending nudes anymore, I want to know alternatives :) Nothing other than social reports of teenage behavior came up when I googled that though...

ackmedsgirl666
January 11th, 2013, 07:24 PM
then just send some nice pictures to your friend with you wearing makeup or wearing something pretty. as long as there is clothing involved its fine

justinglives
January 11th, 2013, 07:29 PM
I just remembered one really close girl i knew who sent pics of herself to her @@ EX @@ boyfriend. The day after they broke up you can only imagine where those pics ended up. Suffice to say......her ex was not the only one who knew what ahe looked like naked! She was the hit of the guys locked room! And NO i dont ageee with it. The guy was a dickhead for doing it! But it happened none the less.

Dunce
January 11th, 2013, 07:31 PM
I just remembered one really close girl i knew ago secured pics of herself to her @@ EX @@ boyfriend. The day after they broke up you can only imagine where those pics ended up. Suffice to say......h Errrrrrrr ex was not the only one who knew what ahe looked like naked! She was rhw jit of the guys locked room! And NO i dont ageee with it. The guy was a dickhead for doing it!

Ugh that sucks...