HELP! Unsure how to ask or what yo do!

[Frankie66]

Ok so for syarters, i gave my number out to a guy and we talked for like 3 or 4 days, and then like it stoped...but we well i think we had a connection and im like worried about this guy...i really want to ask him out because he made me feel i guess special and im not sure what to do...i am thinking about calling him and asking him out but im unsure, so any advice would be appreciated :) and thanks if you took the time and read this :)

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Is he gay or bi?

[Noirtier]

Ok so for syarters, i gave my number out to a guy and we talked for like 3 or 4 days, and then like it stoped...but we well i think we had a connection and im like worried about this guy...i really want to ask him out because he made me feel i guess special and im not sure what to do...i am thinking about calling him and asking him out but im unsure, so any advice would be appreciated :) and thanks if you took the time and read this :)

The first thing I want to ask is, do you actually like this guy romantically, or do you just want to go out with him just to have someone to be with and because he "made you feel special"? Because if you don't really like him, and it's just because you want someone to be with, I'll tell you right now that isn't fair to him and in all honesty, it's not fair to you either. It would, in all reality, just be using him. If, though, you find that you really do like this guy, then I would try getting in contact with him again and talking with him some again before you took things any further. Once you've gotten to know him more--more than just 4 days of talking to him--if you feel you truly do like him then you can try asking him on a date. Maybe to dinner or a movie or something, and be sure to know what time, how you all would get there, etc., before you call and ask him--and keep in mind that it's preferable that you do it in person, but if that's not possible then calling him would be acceptable. I want you again, though, to please get to know this guy better before you try anything, and make sure that you really do like him, and you aren't just using him. We're all here to help and support you if you need it, and I wish you the best of luck, but please keep what I said in mind when you're deciding what to do.

[Frankie66]

The first thing I want to ask is, do you actually like this guy romantically, or do you just want to go out with him just to have someone to be with and because he "made you feel special"? Because if you don't really like him, and it's just because you want someone to be with, I'll tell you right now that isn't fair to him and in all honesty, it's not fair to you either. It would, in all reality, just be using him. If, though, you find that you really do like this guy, then I would try getting in contact with him again and talking with him some again before you took things any further. Once you've gotten to know him more--more than just 4 days of talking to him--if you feel you truly do like him then you can try asking him on a date. Maybe to dinner or a movie or something, and be sure to know what time, how you all would get there, etc., before you call and ask him--and keep in mind that it's preferable that you do it in person, but if that's not possible then calling him would be acceptable. I want you again, though, to please get to know this guy better before you try anything, and make sure that you really do like him, and you aren't just using him. We're all here to help and support you if you need it, and I wish you the best of luck, but please keep what I said in mind when you're deciding what to do.

First off thanks a whole lot for taking the time to answer and nooo i would never use anyone and i really do like him like a lot im just not sure if he feels the same way...but i want to ask him out to see if like we could be a couple

[Noirtier]

First off thanks a whole lot for taking the time to answer and nooo i would never use anyone and i really do like him like a lot im just not sure if he feels the same way...but i want to ask him out to see if like we could be a couple

Well then, I would still recommend you get to know him a bit better before asking him out, three or four days really isn't enough time to get to know someone to see if you're even compatible or figure out if you'd be happy with them. I'm here to help and support you regardless, but I just caution you on that, don't rush into it too fast, you know? And then, like I said, I'd try asking him out on a date sometime after you got to know him a bit better--you just have to start talking to him again first.

[Frankie66]

Well then, I would still recommend you get to know him a bit better before asking him out, three or four days really isn't enough time to get to know someone to see if you're even compatible or figure out if you'd be happy with them. I'm here to help and support you regardless, but I just caution you on that, don't rush into it too fast, you know? And then, like I said, I'd try asking him out on a date sometime after you got to know him a bit better--you just have to start talking to him again first.

Thanks for the advice :) and im not sure like what to text to him cuz we havent talked in a couple days

[Jake.the.muss]

Love the life you live, live the life you love
Txt him and make plans with him then ask him out

Of just randomly kiss him

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[Frankie66]

Love the life you live, live the life you love
Txt him and make plans with him then ask him out

Of just randomly kiss him

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First, really diggin your quote and yeah thats good advice thanks :)