Bad or no?

[Zowwow]

Food :3

[Snookers]

These kind of stuff should be done when you're feel like you're ready, emotionally and physically. Just because you don't feel like doing it that doesn't mean that you're a pussy. Being your first time I'd say that no, it is not a bad thing.

[LitBlackRose]

It's not bad at all.if you want wait then wait. No one has the right to pressure you into doing anything that you don't want to. You should have sex when you really want to not when your forced to

[darkie]

Some girls have this mentality that guys are just machines with raging hormones all the time and will pounce at any opportunity of having sex. That's why when a guy refuses to have sex, they may get surprised at that and think the guy isn't a real man or something.

Don't let what she said affect you, it means that you really have self-control and you know what you're doing. Like what they said above, if you're not really ready to have sex, don't. Don't let anyone pressure you :)

[brianabyington]

NO your not a pussy. Just don't want to have sex with the wrong person and that's cool.

[Zowwow]

Thanks Guys ^_^

[Nolf]

i actually think thats its pretty good for you. sex can be ruined and just made uncomfortabe if someone isnt ready, and its wrong of her to ask that of you. Have sex when youre ready, the girls will still be hot

[Mortal Coil]

It's not bad at all. She probably fell prey to the stereotypes surrounding males, that masculinity is defined by these sexual urges. You aren't a pussy at all, she's just grossly mistaken about the nature of masculinity.

[toobigforlife]

Your adorable XD and no there is no problem with waiting untill your mentally and physically ready to have sex I have GREAT respect for you and I know the pressure for a guy to have sex is way greater than a girl to, so its harder for guys to stay virgins then girls, so keep up the good work.

[crispxtra]

Your decision isn't weird. tons of guys want to wait. Personally i wanna wait but if the situation is really good in the short future i will do it, but I do like your decision. She is just being mean about it and she shouldnt pressure you into having sex, just like we shouldnt pressure women

[teen.jpg]

Well, you aren't really a virgin anymore. Oral = Oral SEX = Sex. But, I guess you could identify as a virgin. And if you want to wait, then wait. Don't let anyone push you into going any farther.

[Zenos]

So, a girl I was talking to ended up letting me eat her out. She really liked it and wanted to have sex. When I told her that I'm a virgin and kinda wanna wait a little more she said that I am a pussy. Is it THAT bad for a guy to want to wait a little while to have sex? :what:



Nothing wrong with that;it's called having "self-respect" and being man enough to admidt that you want to wait until "you" are truly ready!

If she can't respect you for that then she's not the one for you,and she obviously sees guys as sex crazed hormone drive sex machines,that just cause she wants it should automatically whip it out and get it up for her.

In short she's nothing more then a trollop.

And if you're wondering what a Trollop,a Trollop is a a vulgar or disreputable woman,bimbo,hussy,hoochie,,slut,tramp,floozey,whore,ho,Jezebel,wench.

Inshort the girls probably a chick that will spread her legs for any male she thinks she can get in between her thighs and was all upset because she's not used to a guy being "MAN" enough to want to wait until he feels it's the right time.

[Zenos]

Well, you aren't really a virgin anymore. Oral = Oral SEX = Sex. But, I guess you could identify as a virgin. And if you want to wait, then wait. Don't let anyone push you into going any farther.

LOL I disagree if he didn't get his penis inside her then he's still a virgin.Oral sex doesn't count!

[anyone50]

I don't see a problem with a guy waiting it sounds like the girl you ate out was kinda rude though. You made the right choice in not going all the way with her she sounds as though she's been around the track a few times and who knows what STD's she has. from your post it sounds like you didn't really know her that well.

[mikeybrooklyn]

Some girls think like that if you wanna wait its cool

[nick]

Well, you aren't really a virgin anymore. Oral = Oral SEX = Sex. .
That's nonsense, oral doesn't count.

OP, kudos to you, most guys would have let horniness take over, it's good that you have your own morals and self control and the strength of will not to just give in to lust in the heat of the moment.

You will know when the time is right, you should wait until then and any decent girl should respect you for it.

[tbonehntr]

dont worry about it, have it when you are ready, it shouldnt be something that is rushed

[Human]

it's not bad at all. i was in a similar situation to you :P
i'm not particularly bothered about my age, more about the girl

[dingo006]

its actually better to wait. It builds desire and anticipation. I would say you want sex to be something you build to and do a lot of other things before you have sex. you should be totally comfortable with a person you have sex with.

[Texas warrior]

It doesn't mean that.

[SammyG17]

i think its pretty cool. The fact that you know what you want, and/or are ready for, is a quality a lot of people don't have until they are in their 30's. So awesome job to you for knowing what you want!

[unusedaccount]

So, a girl I was talking to ended up letting me eat her out. She really liked it and wanted to have sex. When I told her that I'm a virgin and kinda wanna wait a little more she said that I am a pussy. Is it THAT bad for a guy to want to wait a little while to have sex? :what:

No, Sex is something you should have when your ready, no one should force you into it.

[Bryce51]

No man, its all up to you and when you're ready.

[Ellie wood crainey]

No nit wrong or bad, I respect you for that. And respect is what you want in life!

[CoDy_]

Not at all! You wanted to wait, and you did just that by saying no. You have every right to wait, and she's probably just some girl who will do it with who ever, when ever, where ever. Probably best you didn't do it with her.