Gay or Bi??

[AtOmIc ASVP]

When I masturbate to porn, I cum more when watching gay/bi porn, but can still have a decent orgasm to straight porn, am i gay or bi?

[ReginaGeorge]

Homosexuality is the attraction to the same-sex. Bisexuality is attraction to both male and female.

Porn is not an indicator of sexuality. Lots of women enjoy lesbian porn and are straight, a few men really like gay porn, but they're straight too. Porn is just looking, and looking is different to touching.

Do you want to be intimate with a man the same way you would with a woman? If yes, you might be bi. If you only want to be intimate with men, you might be gay, if only women, you are straight, regardless of what porn you watch.

How much you ejaculate when masturbating is not an indicator.

[canadaski]

Homosexuality is the attraction to the same-sex. Bisexuality is attraction to both male and female.

Porn is not an indicator of sexuality. Lots of women enjoy lesbian porn and are straight, a few men really like gay porn, but they're straight too. Porn is just looking, and looking is different to touching.

Do you want to be intimate with a man the same way you would with a woman? If yes, you might be bi. If you only want to be intimate with men, you might be gay, if only women, you are straight, regardless of what porn you watch.

How much you ejaculate when masturbating is not an indicator.

True, although a more powerful orgasm with stronger muscle contractions can be a result of more arousal.

It's certainly quite easy to tell when you're masturbating for the sake of masturbating or if you're doing it because you're aroused. Sometimes I'll even masturbate while watching the news. It doesn't necessarily mean that I find rex murphy irresistably sexy, although he is quite the looker. Sometimes you unknowingly have two existances that are almost completely dissociated at any given moment.

To word it differently, just because you're watching porn while masturbating doesn't always mean you're masturbating to the porn you're watching.

Firstly, try to get the fucked up idea of sexuality out of your head. It will never be as black and white as most people believe. The solution sounds stupid but it's really quite simple. Just do what feels right to you at any point in time. The only reason the idea that only gay people and straight people exist is to make it easier for people to tell other people that they're not like some other other people, or some other peoples' people.

If there is ever a situation where someone is desperate for an answer so they can finally have some peace and jerk off to the memories of your discussion in bed, just tell them one of two things.

Option A: "I'm bisexual."

Option B: "Go fuck yourself."

Just because you have a homosexual experience or have homosexual emotions for somebody doesn't mean you're gay. The same thing goes for heterosexual experiences and emotions. Really, you're whatever the fuck you feel like doing at any point in time. The only existence you have is right now so don't worry about it.

[Dunce]

Don't base your sexuality on porn. Who attracts you in real life? Who do you have crushes on? Who would you go out with?
Sexuality is about who you fall in love with, not who you prefer to watch making love.