abusive mom ._.

[kadeekat]

okay, she's not physically abusive but i cant be in a fucking bad mood; no actually, not SMILING, and i get lectures about how much of a hateful piece of shit i am, and how she should take all my electronics then i'll be happy. "you dont have any reasons to be sad". oh, im sorry, i thought i just broke up with a boyfriend who basically said he didnt give a damn about what i did, and got mad at me for standing up for myself when his ex & 2 other girls started going off on me, calling me a worthless ugly slut just for fucking EXISTING.. and he stood up for them. gave them permission to start spreading rumors. not to mention the fact i got called "scene" and made fun of for liking adventure time, got in a fight with my best friend at school, and am struggling with self harm, an eating disorder & being verbally abused by my parents every day & being bullied every day at school & online. no mom, nothing to be sad about at all. -.-

[tundravortex]

okay, she's not physically abusive but i cant be in a fucking bad mood; no actually, not SMILING, and i get lectures about how much of a hateful piece of shit i am, and how she should take all my electronics then i'll be happy. "you dont have any reasons to be sad". oh, im sorry, i thought i just broke up with a boyfriend who basically said he didnt give a damn about what i did, and got mad at me for standing up for myself when his ex & 2 other girls started going off on me, calling me a worthless ugly slut just for fucking EXISTING.. and he stood up for them. gave them permission to start spreading rumors. not to mention the fact i got called "scene" and made fun of for liking adventure time, got in a fight with my best friend at school, and am struggling with self harm, an eating disorder & being verbally abused by my parents every day & being bullied every day at school & online. no mom, nothing to be sad about at all. -.-

kadee dont be scared to stand up for yourself if you have to hit the bitch(exsuse my language) but when you have three or four people going against you you have to fight back dosnt matter if its words or hits...if you have to tell the cops they'll help you out...its not the best answer but hope it helps

[kadeekat]

thank you, i'm thinking about telling someone, but probably not the cops. it means a lot that you replied ;-; .

[Clawhammer]

Sounds like your mom is blind to the reality of the situation. It's wrong of her to say things like that, and she really isn't being a mother to you. I don't know if it's of any use, but if there is any way to make her understand your situation, I hope you find it. Otherwise, I hope you do find someone who understands and who you can talk to. This website is full of people who are willing to listen and who can genuinely sympathize. That's what we're all here for, to help out.
Life is hard, but having someone to talk to can be the best help there is. Just try to ignore the bad voices around you and try to find a good one. The others aren't worth paying any attention to, and their words aren't worth wasting any energy on. You're fine the way your are; it seems like it's what's going on around you that is wrong. Maybe if you could cut off a couple of connections and just focus on peace with yourself, it might help out a bit. Just take some quiet time to spend alone instead of going around with more people, read a book, think, or just relax. Think of it as curling up alone by the fireplace when everything outside is going crazy.
I know it's all insane right now, but I hope things calm down a bit and people ease up on you. Hope I helped in some way... Good luck, lass.

[ackmedsgirl666]

i think you and your mom both need to see a family councellor and hopefully it would make family life alot easier.. and she wouldnt be the way she is and you wouldnt be the way you are... and maybe if you guys opened up to eachother you guys would have a better understanding of one another

[Texas warrior]

Your mom has forgotten the hell of teendome, ask her some time to remember what a shity time she had as a teen, maybe she will remember and will give you a break. Hope this helps.

[escalier]

I don't have a mom but I live with my grandmother (almost like mom hehe) and she is like the same. Although she physically abuses me and then she becomes like your mom. Or if she doesn't she won't talk to me.

[TopThrill]

If you need to, seek help from a school counselor. But at the same time, maybe she thinks you text to much and you get sad fom that, I don't know. Just seek help, and if you need to, get the law enforcement if you feel your household is an unsafe environment. It might feel wrong, but it might help you live a happier life.

[Synyster Shadows]

kadee dont be scared to stand up for yourself if you have to hit the bitch(exsuse my language) but when you have three or four people going against you you have to fight back dosnt matter if its words or hits...if you have to tell the cops they'll help you out...its not the best answer but hope it helps

Well said. I totally agree with you man. Just stand up for yourself. That's what I'd do if I truly had to. It's what my dad did as a kid when he was bullied. He threw rocks at the bullies and they stopped.

[Jamesison]

You need to talk to soem one maybe talk to a teacher from school or soemthing...

[Stronk Serb]

She's a bitch alright. Tell her that you have problems and tell her politely to fuck off. My mom keeps giving me 30 minute lectures. I once said that 99.9% of those lectures she's having a monologue, since I am not listening since she repeats the same thing everytime.