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gamergirl
January 9th, 2013, 09:00 PM
ok so today i walked in on my brother mbing and i just froze and it was really awk.... wierd thing is since i saw that ive thought of various senarios of getting him to walk in on me or see me nude or even experementing or doing things together :confused: this is the first time ive seen him nude since we were little kids and hes one year older than me. i have seriously considered putting on my bday suit and calling him in my room :eek: ik this is weird but what should i do (and not do) and has anyone else experienced this? (please dont say anything mean)
lyriclover
January 9th, 2013, 09:22 PM
Kinda. I have a bro a year younger than me and I think about what would happen if I maybe "accidently" let him catch me. I would never act upon it though. Some people do and as long as you guys don't actually have sex it's okay to experiment. It's not weird, most girls have probably had similar thoughts. Just be safe and don't do anything you'll regret. :)
gamergirl
January 9th, 2013, 09:49 PM
well i just can't seem to think of a way to let him know that i want to without it being the most awkk moment of my life... like would it be super wierd if i just went up and asked him if my breasts look good or "would you mind if we mbd together" haha i dont think he would ever walk in on me b/c we dont really hangout or even talk to each other at all.... probly why i feel so ok with these thoughts
endgame
January 9th, 2013, 10:15 PM
Totally not weird at all.
lyriclover
January 9th, 2013, 10:24 PM
Hehe I would probably just ask him "yo wanna fap together?", but that's just me. I really don't recommend that unless you can say it nonchalant. If you're going to be nervous or scared when you ask don't try being chill about it. But I guess try to be cool and like "one of the guys". Don't make it seem like a big deal and neither will he.
gamergirl
January 9th, 2013, 10:43 PM
im gonna just yolo and do it!!! i feel like itll make our relationship closer also.. and should i be like we only do ourselves haha or just let him do what he wants?
randomnessqueen
January 9th, 2013, 11:01 PM
i havent about my bro. but i think its normal to have those thoughts.
the thoughts are common so dont make a rash decision, or do something you may regret.
but if you honestly want to, i dont see much wrong with experimentation.
gamergirl
January 9th, 2013, 11:08 PM
now im trying to think of what would my reaction be if my older brother walked up and asked to mb beside each other... that feels like itd be weird coming from him >.<
kentucky girl
January 10th, 2013, 01:08 PM
not weird at all, my brother and i have walked in on each other masterbating a few times and it wasn' awkward at all
alice smith
January 13th, 2013, 05:37 PM
Do what you think is best.
There's nothing weird about having thhese thoughts and acting on them can be really fun ;)
ackmedsgirl666
January 13th, 2013, 05:44 PM
its normal to walk in on siblings masturbating but not to do something with them especially at an older age.....
anyone50
January 13th, 2013, 06:08 PM
I guess one way would be let him make the first move if he's interested and all you would have to do is let him see you walk naked into your room and leave your door open enough for him to see you while your masturbating.
stepht
January 13th, 2013, 10:12 PM
I agree if he's like most guys he's going to notice if there's a chance to see you naked or even more so mbating. Wouldn't take much to at least set it up and see what he does. You might have to encourage him a little tho if u want something to happen.
I walked in on my younger brother and we wound up showing each other how we do it. It was a bit weird at first but actually turned out cool and we're closer now. He asks me questions about sex and he didn't do that before.
qwertygirl
January 14th, 2013, 12:00 AM
idk man I think it's totally weird to experiment or even masturbate with your sibling, call me conservative. But I think that masturbation in general is something that's private, and that incest does in fact include anything sexually related, such as masturbating in front of each other. My brother does tell me about him watching porn and stuff, but it's not like he's ever tried to get me to watch with him. I think that talking about certain things is absolutely fine. But watching each other touch yourselves?
I mean think about it.
jhardy
January 14th, 2013, 01:17 AM
To your original post about if you being turned on is weird or not, it's completely normal. I've had that happen to me when I've seen my brother naked. I personally wouldn't take it any further than that, but if you all are comfortable with it, that's your call to make.
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