girlfriend and expirementing

[SirMazing]

For those who expierimented, did you have a girlfriend. Like is it cheating on your girlfriend if you expirement with a guy? And is it normal to experiment when you have a gf? Is it ok? :what:

[Lost in the Echo]

Yep, it is cheating. If you're in a relationship with someone, and you engage in any sexual or intimate contact with another person, then yes, that IS cheating. And yes, it is normal to want to experiment at your age, because your hormones are raging as you go through puberty, but if you are in a relationship, you shouldn't break that commitment you have with that person, by having sex or experimenting with another person.

My advice to you is to be loyal to your girlfriend. It appears as though you aren't seriously committed to her though, so if experimenting is really important to you, at least break up with your girlfriend, so you're not "stabbing her in the back", so to speak.

[SirMazing]

Yep, it is cheating. If you're in a relationship with someone, and you engage in any sexual or intimate contact with another person, then yes, that IS cheating. And yes, it is normal to want to experiment at your age, because your hormones are raging as you go through puberty, but if you are in a relationship, you shouldn't break that commitment you have with that person, by having sex or experimenting with another person.

My advice to you is to be loyal to your girlfriend. It appears as though you aren't seriously committed to her though, so if experimenting is really important to you, at least break up with your girlfriend, so you're not "stabbing her in the back", so to speak.

Thanks but btw im not in a relationship, i was just curious

[Coolguy10890]

Well, your just jackin off with another guy or comparing sizes, not like dating him so, I don't think it would be "cheating" not sure tho. Maybe u could ask ur GF if you could jack off with ur bud but idk what she is like idk how she reacts if u talk bout sexual things to her so, do not ask her unless you know she may say its ok.

[RunnerForLife]

If you're just messing around with a friend like just jackin off then I dot think that is cheating but if you have sex with your friend oral or anal, then yeah that'd be cheating haha

[PinkFloyd]

Yeah that's cheating. If you have a girlfriend, you need to keep that trust. When me and my girlfriend were both in 7th grade, we "experimented." I mean there was nothing to compare because of obvious reasons... Well what im getting at is maybe you should try sexual stuff with your girlfriend. Only do that if you're both ready though.

-Rob

[alex99Ro]

If you like that guy,you might be bi.Anyway,our hormones are crazy and we want to experiment new things.At this age,we don't even know what sexuality we have(we know about 50%,in my opinion).Also,I think that this thing with girl/boyfriends is a little over our age.Now,I can only name them FRIENDS. We have the whole life to love someone and we don't have to worry about this now.In my classroom,it is quite like "fashion" to have a bf/gf,but Im not really interested in fashion:D.I listen to music from 80's-90's and want to feel good. Not to run for a girl that can anytime let me for another guy,maybe a few years bigger.

[ImAJock]

thats cheating

[omfgwtf]

Seriously thats obviously cheating why even ask but if you did and she found out I think she would break up with u

[crispxtra]

I think its cheating because you are in a monogamous relationship and u shouldnt do anything with other people regardless of gender

[sdude]

It is NOT cheating, you aren't making out with him, you are just doing what guys do....A girlfriend is an emotional commitment, not a marriage. You are a teen boy for crying out loud. And to say (have sex with the gf) is completely bogus. You are far more ready to jackoff with a buddy than have the consequences of male-female intercourse..BIG difference!! Calling this cheating, which is SEX with another person...if you are making out, having anal sex, 69, kissing..then yeah, you are cheating...but THEN you have much BIGGER reasons to break off the gf if that is happening.....

[JustAGuy]

I'm straight but I think if you should tell your girl friend what your feeling or lack of feeling and that some space might be needed. I feel like doing anything sexual regardless of who is cheating

[Wrestler0821]

High school relationships aren't serious like most people thing. What you and your buddy do in private should stay there. Hooking up with another girl is wrong when in a relationship. If you are in a romantic relationship with a guy it would be wrong as well.