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Fishes
January 9th, 2013, 05:47 PM
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tundravortex
January 9th, 2013, 05:59 PM
well im not bi but let him do it a few more times and if he keeps doing it than he likes you...so you should get to know him and you might just get your chance
Gandalf
January 9th, 2013, 06:22 PM
So I have a tendancy to over think things but I'm confused. I've Always wanted to make friends with popular people at my school because they always seem to Have the most fun. Plus i am bi curious and the popular guys are really attractive. Anyway, there is a guy that is popular and sometimes he talks to me and he's really hot. We aren't really friends, and whenever he talks to me I love it. But the other day I was walking down the hall and he came up behind me and grabbed my dick from behind me. I liked it a lot, but in school I'm classified as "straight" so I pretended to be surprised. He was with a girl he likes and I can't tell if he was messing around or if he might be bi curious too. We aren't good enough friends to be messing around like that so Idk why he did it. Today, he did it again except we were face to face and he just poked my dick. Is he trying to mess around? Is he mocking me somehow? Or is he really bi curious?
This is always a hard one to deal with, having been in the exact situations myself I can understand the mis leading signals or conflicting thoughts this creates. I would personally just play a waiting game for a couple of days and see if it happens again.
How you handle it from there is a bit more tricky, my best suggestion would be casually asking as soon as he does it "why do you do that?" -Not that he may reply honestly or at all but it forces him to stop even for just a second and react, which may just be enough to reveal what his real intentions are.
Sorry I couldn't help more... :)
unnamed94
January 11th, 2013, 01:05 AM
well im not bi but let him do it a few more times and if he keeps doing it than he likes you...so you should get to know him and you might just get your chance
why would it mean he likes him after that. maybe he just wants to experiment or whatever. i just cant make a connection there between what happened and the guy liking him (it would be a weird way to show it). i would just ask him if he keeps doing that. im straight so i dont know how helpful can my advice be on this situation
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