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alex018
January 8th, 2013, 06:11 PM
So there's this girl I like at school and recently I've been thinking about her like crazy, can't get her out of my head. But the problem is that she is one year ahead of me and if I don't act and do something before the summer exams, I'll have the next year to regret it. Plus I don't even know if she notices me...

I want to talk to her and get to know her, but I have no idea on how to approach this seeing as we don't attend the same classes (being shy definitely isn't helping here). I really wanna make the right impression on her, but how can I even get to talk to her? It's beginning to frustate me and I'm truly at a loss. I sit here writing this with an unpleasant feeling in my stomach thinking only bad things can emerge from this. The thought of her is filling up inside of me to the point where I cannot think or focus properly and other times, mostly when I'm home I have this immense sense of emptiness gnawing away at my stomach. I obviously don't want to give up, yet it seems like another one of those hopeless love stories which always end with grief. If you think it would be for the best if I let it go, don't hesistate to write it. It's driving me nuts and I seem unfocused and unable to think straight at times. Thank you for reading and I hope you can give me some useful advice.

Pierce
January 9th, 2013, 01:15 AM
I know how you feel, I feel the same way about someone. I'm not sure how you can start talking to her if she doesn't know you. If she doesn't really know who you are and you want to start talking to her, I would recommend you try to build a slow relationship until the end of the year. Talk to her more and more throughout the year building your friendship. You can maybe approach her first by looking confused and asking a question. After she answers act like you understand now and maybe make a joke or two. That would be my approach. Best of Luck! Good thing your going to do something. The guy that I have a MAJOR crush on, I started avoiding because I was to chicken to confront him and couldn't stand being around him anymore. Best of luck! lol

JohnnyCage100
January 9th, 2013, 01:45 AM
There are a few ways to go about this bro, see if any of your own friends know her or have a class with her, if not find out if the friends of your friends know her. Also being shy shouldn't stop you dude :0! If you are really worried about how you might sound or look, practice in the mirror that's helps, I do it still(: if at sometime you see her walking alone r by herself just be like "hey your _____ right?" And then she say "Yes", but when she says "yes" listen to her tone of voice to see the kind of mood she's in, you don't wanna catch her in a bad mood right?:0 Right... If you need more help dude let me know(: I've pretty much been there ENOUGH times.

alex018
January 9th, 2013, 01:09 PM
There are a few ways to go about this bro, see if any of your own friends know her or have a class with her, if not find out if the friends of your friends know her. Also being shy shouldn't stop you dude :0! If you are really worried about how you might sound or look, practice in the mirror that's helps, I do it still(: if at sometime you see her walking alone r by herself just be like "hey your _____ right?" And then she say "Yes", but when she says "yes" listen to her tone of voice to see the kind of mood she's in, you don't wanna catch her in a bad mood right?:0 Right... If you need more help dude let me know(: I've pretty much been there ENOUGH times.

The main problem here being that I don't know her name and as an addition to that I'm pretty sure no one from my class knows her.

DippinCope95
January 10th, 2013, 04:52 PM
pretty much just say whats on your mind compliment her, but dont say anything creepy or dont say anything to fast or it will send her running lol