should i tell anymore of my friends?

[crash007]

about a month ago i was talking to this girl online. she said she liked me but i doubted that cause i dont see y any girl would like me. anyways she brought up a topic that i wasnt completly comfortable talking about but i felt that i could tell her anything. i told her how i may have attractions for guys-not emotionally. I told her that i was either bi or straight because i have both physical and emotional attractions to girls. she said that she was totally fine with that however she has been avoiding me online and never wants to hangout. seeing her reaction makes me wonder if i should ever tell my other closer friends because shes the only one i have told and i dont think things will ever b normal between me and her.:(

[Maverick]

Relationships -> Teen Sexuality

I don't think you should tell anymore of your friends until you get older. Maturity and understanding at that young to mid teenage years isn't there. You yourself aren't even sure what you are. I think you should focus less on labeling yourself for the time being and worry about coming out when you are 150% sure what your sexuality is and you're a bit older.

[ctw4451]

I agree with Anthony. Wait, you'll figure everything out. During puberty - hormones, and everything go crazy. She might not be a good friend if she ignores you for your sexual orientation, anyways..

[wazzler7999]

you shouldnt tell any of your friends about it until later age people arent mature around our age

[Underground_Network]

You should probably wait, and I'm not recommending this, but a guy at my school admitted to being bi and instantly became popular; which I find interesting (he was already popular, but he became even more popular afterwards). I don't recommend telling your friends yet. Being bi and not telling your friends isn't even like keeping a secret, its harder when you're gay and you can't tell your friends, b/c you won't want to have the conversations you're having with your friends, while when your bi you can proudly answer your friend when he asks, "Do you think she's hot?" or something like that.

[LateForTheSky]

about a month ago i was talking to this girl online. she said she liked me but i doubted that cause i dont see y any girl would like me. anyways she brought up a topic that i wasnt completly comfortable talking about but i felt that i could tell her anything. i told her how i may have attractions for guys-not emotionally. I told her that i was either bi or straight because i have both physical and emotional attractions to girls. she said that she was totally fine with that however she has been avoiding me online and never wants to hangout. seeing her reaction makes me wonder if i should ever tell my other closer friends because shes the only one i have told and i dont think things will ever b normal between me and her.:(


Now I know what u are going through. I myself know for a fact im gay so told some close friends and felt some of them become more distant over time. That's when I looked over the situation again and relised I ma have been a bit paranoid, but telling people is a great comfort just someone knowing helps. I am not going to advise you one way or another on this because u come accross not a 100% sure of what u are yet. I don't recommend coming out completely until ur older if ur sure who u are or not. Tell ur friends if u want but if you do then help them with their problems as much a u can too. Remember your not the only one with problems, give and take. That's all you can do, its up to u just relax into the situation and you wont be so ARGHHH! about the problems in ur life. You can control ur life to a certain exstent but some things are out of u control (Like peoples reactions) and thats that. Sit back and enjoy the ride its all u can do.

[crash007]

im not gay. i wanna get married to a girl when im older its just i told her im attracted to guys also.