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Derv
January 7th, 2013, 08:27 PM
Would it be OK to shower with another friend that's male? Or would that make me gay?

tundravortex
January 7th, 2013, 08:29 PM
if you were to do stuff while your in the shower with him than yes that would be gay but if your on ly there as friends than thats ok as long if you and your friends agree...names ratonhnhaketon by the way

SirMazing
January 7th, 2013, 08:30 PM
It wouldnt be gay but expirementing :)
Why are you going to ask? Or were you asekd? Or are you going to? (These are just my own cuiousity questuons)

Derv
January 7th, 2013, 08:34 PM
Yea my friend had mentioned it..

Luke91
January 7th, 2013, 09:13 PM
It would be fine to shower with a friend. It is fun to be that open with a friend. We shower together all the time at school. I think it builds trust.

hamtown
January 7th, 2013, 10:43 PM
like shower at home? or liek at school or gym?

DepartInSecret
January 7th, 2013, 10:46 PM
I agree with sirmazing. It would just be experimenting. But if you say yes make sure that you are comfortable showering with him... You shouldn't feel forced into doing it.

NudistKid
January 8th, 2013, 04:37 AM
if your both ok with it its ok and i dont think its gay

coolman12
January 8th, 2013, 12:11 PM
its fine

Scottydog
January 8th, 2013, 12:27 PM
Its fine and normal!

Sph2015
January 8th, 2013, 06:26 PM
Would it be OK to shower with another friend that's male? Or would that make me gay?

I think it's the context of the situation. Is this like, "We just got done swimming, let's grab a shower", or are you thinking something more?

RunnerForLife
January 8th, 2013, 06:36 PM
There's nothing wrong if it's just a shower. But if you have anything more planned then it might be considered experimenting.

Derv
January 8th, 2013, 09:27 PM
But what if he is short and your tall so His head is at your dick?

peter1999
January 9th, 2013, 04:59 AM
its fine its not like they have something you haven't seen before me and my friend have been naked in front of each other heaps of time because of sharing room in camps or getting after a swim or maybe masturbating with friends of our

pokofish
January 9th, 2013, 05:03 AM
nah its ok

Finlandguy
January 9th, 2013, 11:07 AM
I have with my friend when I was 13.. Fun :P
But there was abit of touching.. only with us :D

SSB09
January 9th, 2013, 01:02 PM
I'd be perfectly happy to share a shower. If you are worried about it being gay, well, it depends. From what I've heard, girls shower together all the time. I think it is fine to do.

Leon03
January 9th, 2013, 01:04 PM
Showering together with a friend, team-mate or whoever does not make you gay at all! Eather you are or you are not - you might only find our that you are if certain things happened.

MickeyMouse13
January 9th, 2013, 02:14 PM
Would it be OK to shower with another friend that's male? Or would that make me gay?

No action, can really make you gay, being gay is feeling emotion towards other guys. Showering is a action, not an emotion, so it wouldn't make you gay, nothing can, unless you want to be gay, it's your own choice... But if it makes you question your sexuality, when you didn't want it questioning then it may not be the best idea... But if you accept that it was just experimenting and that you didn't want it be gay, then why not? :)

Sean4U
January 9th, 2013, 03:20 PM
No action, can really make you gay, being gay is feeling emotion towards other guys. Showering is a action, not an emotion, so it wouldn't make you gay, nothing can, unless you want to be gay, it's your own choice... But if it makes you question your sexuality, when you didn't want it questioning then it may not be the best idea... But if you accept that it was just experimenting and that you didn't want it be gay, then why not? :)

Adam is correct...nothing makes you gay, you either are or are not...showering definitely would not be anything even if something happened to MAKE you gay....if something happens, more than likely if you both haven't ever done anything, it would be considered experimenting....and honestly most guys experiment in one form or another....I've showered with gay friends and str8 friends and I don't mean in the gym, but at home.....and if you are both comfortable with it and OK with it then by all means go ahead .....

Nellerin
January 9th, 2013, 03:40 PM
Would it be OK to shower with another friend that's male? Or would that make me gay?

You are not gay for showering or even experimenting with a guy. Tons of teens do it often and are straight, so yes it is fine lol.

billy789
January 9th, 2013, 05:44 PM
yep it was fun!!

Soxman97
June 14th, 2013, 05:03 PM
I'd be perfectly happy to share a shower. If you are worried about it being gay, well, it depends. From what I've heard, girls shower together all the time. I think it is fine to do.

Same

WTB1234
June 14th, 2013, 05:16 PM
If anything happens then you might be gay but if nothing happens then your fine.

Trace
June 14th, 2013, 05:19 PM
Same

If anything happens then you might be gay but if nothing happens then your fine.

You both just revived a 3 month old thread.. Congrats. In the off chances that the OP sees my post: No, unless you're attracted to guys and guys only.

ThE DopEsT
June 14th, 2013, 05:24 PM
I don't see how that would make you gay at all. That's ridiculous. It'd only be gay if you and him were to have sex with each other in there. By all means share a shower with another dude, I don't see an issue with it. I've showered with my guy friends before.

alexxpearson
June 14th, 2013, 05:46 PM
no, it's just a shower?

llwoahll
June 19th, 2013, 05:03 AM
I say ur just trying/experimenting so its not gay

JRwulf64
June 19th, 2013, 07:49 PM
it would be fine, it wouldnt even be gay if you guys did anything. you would just be messing around and having fun

Uncut Joe
June 19th, 2013, 08:03 PM
As has already been said in more than 20 different ways, showering with another guy does not make you gay.

TDWPFAN2012
June 19th, 2013, 10:43 PM
hey if he wants u to shower with him
and u are ok with it then go for it dude
its not gonna make u gay or bi even if
u do anything in the shower with him
just have fun and dont worry about it

SCHS1998
June 19th, 2013, 10:54 PM
If you just shower than its not gay. If you start having sex then it would be.

warriorofthewater12
June 22nd, 2013, 02:21 AM
Its normal.for guys to.shower

Catholic Guy
June 22nd, 2013, 05:22 PM
Sounds perfectly fine to me to be honest, just sounds like an experience you share with a friend no big deal

The captain
June 22nd, 2013, 05:32 PM
I guess its ok...I never shower same time , same shower at my house, but I do it ever at gym or school

countryboi9
June 22nd, 2013, 05:41 PM
hell no that don't make u gay if u shower with another guy, what do u think guys who play sports do, shower alone

DerBear
June 22nd, 2013, 05:42 PM
Same

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