What The!?!?!?

[xStar64]

Ok so today one of my female friends asked me this:
"I'm having an all girl slumber party, you're invited"

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She knows I have a gf and this would totally weird her out. My main question is why? I'm straight and she was completely serious bout this.

[Gandalf]

Ok so today one of my female friends asked me this:
"I'm having an all girl slumber party, you're invited"

...

She knows I have a gf and this would totally weird her out. My main question is why? I'm straight and she was completely serious bout this.

Well it could be possible she likes you as more than friends or one of her friends likes you and possibly using the situation as an excuse to get you alone.

Otherwise she just might genuinely want you there since the might think you'll enjoy it.

If you are in a relationship I would suggest you think very carefully about whether or not you actually go.
Would it be worth just casually asking "Why am I the only guy being invited to a girls slumber party?" Your bluntness could get answers or you could just ask your friend and see what response you get.

Either way only you can judge what to do. Hope I helped :)

[AuthorX303720]

If I was single hell I would go for it. But instead don't go because they might do weird things, sexually harass you stuff like that. Maube you should decline on the invitation and tell them that your doing something with your guys friends like playing minecraft or some shit -Sid

[FreeFall]

-She either hates your girlfriend, secretly or not, and wants to break you up
-She either has secret feelings for you, or some you're completely oblivious to, and wants to "get in your sleeping bag".
-She invited a girl friend who is majorly crushing on you and she's playing match-maker.
-She doesn't think you're committed to your girlfriend.
-Your gender and sexuality means nothing to her as she's internalized you as one of the girls.
-She thinks for some reason a boy with a girlfriend would enjoy an all girl slumber party.

Though you say she knows you have a girlfriend who would not be ok with you going to an all girls' slumber party, you say?
Something about that screams, unkind intentions.

[ackmedsgirl666]

i wouldnt go
i agree with the others who have posted
this girl is plotting something... some way for you to cheat on your girlfriend
i would talk to her and tell her whats going on
she would probably have something to say about it.. so unless you wanna get dumped... i suggest you not take part in this slumber party... because i know how jealous girls are and what they can do to get in someones pants especially ones of a boyfriend whos dating a girlfriend they hate if i make any sense... shes against your girlfriend by the sounds of things and wants to hurt her

[Dimentio]

XD XD Sorry laughing! Well one that is funny and super cute :3 Seems like a funny and cute person! Two girls love just having a guy at places, But also like the others have said she could want to break you both up or she likes you and has things planned, Either way it is trouble :/

[Lost in the Echo]

As others have said, maybe she just has a crush on you. Just simply tell her that you don't want to go to the slumber party.
If things start to escalate, tell her you're not interested in her, because you already have a girlfriend, whom you're committed to.

[xStar64]

Thank you everyone! I will respectfully decline her invitation. This was a big help!

[Texas warrior]

I would bluntly ask her why she invited you, if she gives some half assed answer she is probably up to something.

[dontfiguremeout]

First off she said girl sleep over, and you're a guy! Something bad is going to really happen there to really upset your girlfriend! I can tell you that! And I'm pretty sure there won't be parents there, so that's why she invited one guy so they can have "fun" with you, then probably spread it around the whole campus! Don't do it! But I would just say a heads up to your girlfriend what just happened, but say you aren't going because you don't want anything happening, because then both of you can keep an eye on that one girl, so if that girl does something, you and your girlfriend knows what's really going up, and not some lie.

[ImAll4U24]

Maby she and her friends are going to play spin the bottle and they need a guy to make it intersting and she knew u wouldn'd freak out when she asked or she's sending u a perveted mesage by saying an "all girl" party as in "all girl+boyfriend" party. So I would ask my girlfriend if she was going and if she wasn't I'd ask my friend if she could come.

[Wrestler0821]

Sounds like she is trying to start trouble. I agree with declining her.