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lonelyheart
January 7th, 2013, 03:21 PM
Lately I find myself feeling like I'm all alone, like there's no one who's there for me, no one who truely understands what I'm going through.
It's not like I have no friends, but even though I know they're my friends, I still have this feeling like they don't really care about what goes on im my life, how I feel. It's not like I just sit there with a depressed lood on my face and expect them to know everything I'm going through but I've already told some of them exacly what I feel and why and it's like I never even mentiond it.
With each day passing, I find myself listening to even depressier songs, thinking about it more and more than all, crying. Lately I'm crying atleast twice a week.
I just had to tell someone and maybe if my friends don't understand that, than atleast one of you will. I truely don't know what to do with myself.

tundravortex
January 7th, 2013, 03:35 PM
srry for what you are going though but just talk to people and see what you have in command,that all i can say man to get over depression and lonleyness if you just have to talk to people and you might get lucky and might end up with a girlfriend

happinessisoverrated
January 7th, 2013, 03:56 PM
I know how you feel, I've had depression almost my whole life and I've always felt alone and misunderstood by those around me. I too feel that most of my friends don't care what I'm going through and such. I know what its like, and I know how shitty it can be and how much worse it can make you feel.
You just need to try to find people you can talk to that genuinely care about you. I know that can be really hard, but try. If your own circle of friends can't help you, then try socializing with other people; get close to them. Hanging out with new people can do wonders, trust me. It'll be hard, but worth it.
I want you to know that you're not alone. There are other people experiencing similar things to yours. I'm always here if you need to talk, as I'm sure are many people on this website.
You'll get through this. <3

AuthorX303720
January 7th, 2013, 04:44 PM
I know how you feel, my depression is damning me in everyway shape and form. I don't have any friends except my girlfriend which I see once in 2 months. I crying right now knowing that one of my fellow VTers feel the same way. Maybe we should get through this together. Not alone we are all friends on here. On here I finally get a sense of family, not just enemies. Family and friends. If you need help I am here to talk. If you need to vent, I am here.