My neighbor...

[kayleethegray]

When I was 6 or so, my 9 year old neighbor would have me give him bjs through the fence. Have I just been a slut from the beginning? I don't feel like I'm a victim or that I was... God, I am just a slut, huh? That's a rhetorical question, I just needed to get it out there. Any advice on how I should feel about this is appreciated.

I also have no idea where he lives, and I live a thousand miles from where it happened, Ijust don't know what to think about myself.

[CharlieHorse]

We all do stupid things as a kid. I wouldn't worry about it, just as long as both you and the neighbor know you two were just screwing around and it didn't mean anything.
But I would stay away from the neighbor if he seems like a pedophile or a creep.

[Texas warrior]

We all do stupid things as kids, and better you don't play the victim card. It never does good anything it just makes you feel bad. And as for being a slut, I would be a slut if I was judged by female standers. Most men would be. As long as you don't get pregnant or a STD or any thing else like that live life, who cares what other people stupid standers are?

[Irishperson15]

I think you were just pressurised into doing something that you didn't understand as a kid. Maybe you just thought that you had to because this guy was older than you? Don't worry about it, it would be different if you understood what you were doing at the time, but you didn't

[lightPainting]

first of all you are not a slut.and you shouldn't worry about this, it happend, what....5-7 years ago. It was in the past. you learn from your past misstates and that makes you a stronger person. So over all... be happy, because that is whats important.

Have a nice day!
& feel free to chat with me any time.

[pokofish]

your not a slut u dont sleep with mutiple parthers

[stepht]

Don't think bad about yourself. You were really young and we all do things like that sometimes.

[LolaHaze]

When I was 6 or so, my 9 year old neighbor would have me give him bjs through the fence... and one day, I went over to his house and he dared me to let him put his wiener in my bum... I let him. Have I just been a slut from the beginning? I don't feel like I'm a victim or that I was... God, I am just a slut, huh? That's a rhetorical question, I just needed to get it out there. Any advice on how I should feel about this is appreciated.

I also have no idea where he lives, and I live a thousand miles from where it happened, Ijust don't know what to think about myself.

Own who you are. it's like that line from the Princess Diaries - no one can make you feel inferior without your permission (something like that).

And no 6 year old is a slut. so there's that.

[janisj182]

u where a victim sorry you had todo that

[Troy35216]

you were 6 and he was 8 and he made you do stuff. you weren't a slut you were a victim.

[Xpert]

I would say if you enjoyed it, it is ok. Stay with those memories and think it was an experiment which everybody does one day out of curiosity. Important is do what you like and so on.

[Lost in the Echo]

From the information you gave, it doesn't sound like you're a slut. To me, it sounds like that boy manipulated you, and kinda took advantage of you.

[Dooby the potato god]

You probably weren't fully aware of your actions. I'd say you were a victim.

[candabear17]

Own who you are. it's like that line from the Princess Diaries - no one can make you feel inferior without your permission (something like that).

And no 6 year old is a slut. so there's that.

Elleanor roosevelt is the one who said "no one can make me feel inferior without my consent." Also, I agree that you are not now and could not have been a slut at the age of 6. Young children experiment with each other because they're curious. You shouldn't hold it against yourself. If you feel you were taken advantage of, than seek out therapy. If not, than move on. It was a long time ago and you didn't know any better. :)

[LolaHaze]

Elleanor roosevelt is the one who said "no one can make me feel inferior without my consent." Also, I agree that you are not now and could not have been a slut at the age of 6. Young children experiment with each other because they're curious. You shouldn't hold it against yourself. If you feel you were taken advantage of, than seek out therapy. If not, than move on. It was a long time ago and you didn't know any better. :)

Thank you! I love that quote! And you're absoutely right!

[candabear17]

Thank you! I love that quote! And you're absoutely right!

I do to ^-^ she was an amazing woman!

[Wanderer_]

That doesn't make you a slut - neither of you probably understood it - kids these days are more likely to be exposed to serious porn earlier from careless parents, older siblings etc and imitate out of curiosity

It's a huge problem in Australia with the indigenous aboriginal people particularly
You hear of cases of 4 year olds imitating sex acts because they see it on the tv all the time because there alcoholic, petrol sniffing, drug addled families don't care what the kids see them do and watch on tv