Am I a complete idiot

[willziack]

Ok I regret doing this but I left my girlfriend for a complete babe at my school and I thought we had something going but in the end she didn't want me because she was dating my best friend so in one of the only singles in my year. How much of an ass am I

[Desuetude]

Leaving your girlfriend for someone else just because she's more attractive is a pretty dickish move but there's nothing you can do about it now. You're only 14, you shouldn't be worrying that you're one of the only people not in a relationship. You'll find someone that you really care about eventually, just give it time. In your position I would apologise to your ex, it will show her you're actually sorry and even if she doesn't take you back she should have more respect for you than if you just left it unexplained.

[Lost in the Echo]

Honestly, that was kind of a shitty thing to do.
If you still have true feelings for the girl you left, then try to make up with her.

I recommend that if you have a good thing going with a girl, you don't fuck it up, by leaving her for a "babe".

[Troy35216]

what goes around, comes around

[FreeFall]

Heh. That's more than just an ass move.

Hope you don't make this a habit. You need a clean slate. No guilt, no grudges, nothing. Just a clean fresh start.
You did a terrible, selfish, egotistical thing. But if you ex hangs it over your head that you did that, or doesn't trust you, you will both be miserable with each other unless you can work to overcome it.

You're 14. We all do stupid stuff when we're kids. So just give it time, mature a little bit, and move on (:

[InfamousPanda]

Did you ever have real feelings for your girlfriend? It does not sound like you did. The only reason you are upset is that you are left with nobody. You aren't upset that you don't have your original girlfriend, you upset that you don't have anyone in general. If things with this babe would have worked out, then you would be perfectly happy, right? You form relationships because you truly like the person, not because you just want a girlfriend. So yes, in my opinion, you are an ass.

[AuthorX303720]

If I had to rate if you are an ass I would rate you a 10, but I am an 100. If you loved your girlfriend so much, why did you dump her when she didn't want to? Was she bad to you? I can accept that as an answer but for any other answer I can't. You decided to blow away a perfect oppurtunity and decided to blow it. So then your friedn decided to take that oppurtunity and coddled it. So it is your fault, I am sorry. But it is your fault and you need to fix this. If you need me message me if you want to talk or vent feelings. -Sid

[Taryn98]

Everyone makes mistakes. Just make sure you learn your lesson and don't do it again.