...........again...............

[ackmedsgirl666]

ok so like i look at my boyfriend beside me right now.... and after all we have been through i know that i love him...but how can i make him change his behaviour. his anger... he gets angry at me alot...and sometimes when he gets angry he gets agressive.... if i hit him first he hits back.. only 10x harder with the strength of a man.... and idk what i would do if things got to the point where i had to throw him out... im scared of his violent behaviour it makes me fearful.... the current song of the moment i am listening to:

I guess thats why they call it the blues: elton john

yes this song is making me very emotional right now... idk why
elton john has never made me feel emotional

ugh i just dont know what to do... i dont wanna lose him...
i know he loves me but why does he show this agressive behaviour towards me
why? why? why?
i just want it all to go away :'(
i just want the pain and suffering to go awaybut not him
hes my other half.. my everytying i need him here
i cant be without him.. but im tired of him fighting back..
what happened to the good days...
were only a week short of our 1 year together
after so much drama we held on.. but why are we slowly letting go now

why why why?
cant someone answer this

[AuthorX303720]

No reason to hit anyone, just tell him if he dosen't stop hitting you go to the police.First you should ask him and you to sit down and work out your problems. Then if he dosen't stop, tell him you will call the cops. If he dosen't stop there go to the cops. Then after that leave him. YOU DON'T NEED HIM IF HE IS LIKE CHRIS BROWN AND YOUR RIHANNA! DON'T PROVOKE HIM BY HITTING HIM OR ELSE YOUR BOTH GOING TO JAIL IF YOU GO TO COURT!

[Troy35216]

how can i make him change his behaviour. o
you can't. the only person you can change is you. i bet he has promised a hundred times he'll stop. but he hasn't stopped has he? if you want to stop getting hit then there is only thing to do. leave.

[AkuRokuStalker]

Like I said before dump his ass only a coward would hit a girl

[ackmedsgirl666]

thanks again girl
i know thats all people on here are gonna tell me but its easier said than done

[AuthorX303720]

Honey, I am on the same boat only the opposite way. I live with my abusive sister. She claws me, punches me and she dosen't use her words. If punch comes to shove and she is going to beat me to death then one blow with my baton with tell her to back the fuck off. Nuf' said. If I go to court, I can use that against her and state that my actions were fueled on the grounds of self defence. That what I tell you do that yo your boyfriend if he does it again don't punch him if he is punching you. If he is going to kill you ,I tell you not to invest your money in weapons or firearms. Because those can be used against you unless your James Bond and you have the Q branch :D Lol! But back to the subject. Call the police don't punch back, call the cops. Thats it. -Sid (P.S. I am a Apprentice with my Local Sherriffs office so if you ever need legal support I will go to my mentor and ask him to pull out his red book with canadian/ US laws and see what we can do.)

[CharlieHorse]

He may have some anger management issues. Has he seen a therapist/counselor?

[ackmedsgirl666]

Nope but he is a possible candidate for bipolar

[ackmedslayer556]

Im am fucking sick and tired of all you assholes jumping to the one choice
without considering all of the god dam facts first. Sure i my have a bad side,
but i can bet u a million bucks that there isnt one person on this site that
doesnt. And as for you kenzie you know by now exactly what pushes my bottons
and pisses me off, but u prepesly push me till i break.
Well guess what guys you dont have to worry cause if she
doesnt drive me crazy first then ill be leaving pretty dam soon!!!!!!!!!!!

[ackmedsgirl666]

Im am fucking sick and tired of all you assholes jumping to the one choice
without considering all of the god dam facts first. Sure i my have a bad side,
but i can bet u a million bucks that there isnt one person on this site that
doesnt. And as for you kenzie you know by now exactly what pushes my bottons
and pisses me off, but u prepesly push me till i break.
Well guess what guys you dont have to worry cause if she
doesnt drive me crazy first then ill be leaving pretty dam soon!!!!!!!!!!!


sorry guys.... hes right... i go on here alot and complain about him
reason why he acts the way he does is because i trigger him
i oush him too far when i know his limits and he gets pissed off and when he asks me to stop i dont.. im the reason he beat me a few months back was because i triggered him.. im sorry for wasting peoples time. its my fault