parent trobles

[missfortune]

Hey, um my mom and dad have been spilt up for a year and a half because my dad was cheating on my mom and my mom she acts all peaceful about it and first my mom and dad are fighting one month and then all lovey dovey with each other like their getting back together then my dad dose something totally predictable and my mom she gets all upset and starts messing around with her medication then she for gives him and the cycle carrys on and on and on and I'm getting sick of it I don't know what to do?:confused::(:mad:

[AkuRokuStalker]

Talk to ur parents about it. Tell them it is affecting you. It wont hurt to at least to try.

[ackmedsgirl666]

pull each one of them aside
tell you dad he shouldnt have done what he did as it is affecting the family in a negative way.. and then pull your mom aside maybe suggest she seek phyciatric help for her pill popping problem....(sorry prescription drug abuse) and also maybe yoy guys yourself,mom and dad can get family councelling to seek better ways of keeping you guys somwhat together and make things better.
its worth a shot but it will only work if people are willing to try

[xXl0sth0peXx]

I think you'll get better results here.

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[FreeFall]

Don't try to play peace-keeper hun. That's not the child's responsibility to do. Your mom, she's failing as a mother right now. My heart aches for you. She's putting pleasure before her daughter, flirting with her cheater husband as her child hurts and gets frustrated? Nope. Doesn't fly in my book.

With you mom, you've got to sit her down. Just the two to of you, and explain how you're feeling. Why you're feeling it, what she's doing. Don't come off as if you're trying to control her life, but dammit she left him for space, she needs to understand that and recognize that the lovey dovey is grossly unfair to you and herself for that reason. Especially when the consequences come, those pills.

Your dad, he has no desire to change it seems. Your mom's not doing him any favors either by being lovey dovey, sweeping it under the rug, until the reality bites her in the ass. He's selfish, it sounds like. He's more concerned with himself than wife/soon to be ex-wife/girlfriend? than he is in mending the broken bonds with his hurting daughter. Your parents seem to have chucked you into the dust in their love life flurry.

I will add, some parents aren't meant to be parents under the same roof. Some homes are the most broken when everyone's together. Some are the best when mom and dad aren't together. If they can co-parent together (shared custody/split up) in a peaceful environment that benefits you, that's what may be best. But for your own peace of mind, time to talk to you mom. I don't see much hope in speaking to you dad.

[missfortune]

thanks i will do that!!! and how do you add a persons rep?