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mynameisjane
October 21st, 2007, 03:47 AM
kinda relates to a previous posts, but not the same i promise.

months ago, i met this guy, we'll call him bob. he invited me to hang out with him outside school. not long after he met a guy, we'll call him bill, through me who i barely knew. us three became a group and we hung out a lot. we sometimes hung out with bill's friends too.

not long after i realized that bob was loud, rude, self centered, easily offended, arrogant guy who never admits he's wrong. he acts like he hates me. he doesnt smile and say hi when he picks me up. if i say a joke thats not funny, he rolls his eyes. he's always telling the other guys how i overreact. like he touched me innapropriately so i slapped him and got upset. he was indicating where the guy in the movie we were watching got chainsawed. but i dont think its overreacting when someone you're sitting next to pokes you hard on your inner thigh no more than 3 inches from your crotch! especially when he makes fun of you for it constantly.

i finally explained why i hate him and stopped hanging out with him. he apologized sarcastically. he tells me to apologize for bitching. he didnt really think he did anything wrong. bill said i need to forgive him because his mom died and he's just kidding. then one of the group said he had to go to europe and he might not come back. thats why i started hanging out with them again. bill thanked me.

bob was super-nice. he says the whole group loves me now. he says he thinks i'm awsome. that was last week. they're all friendlier. then that started to fade this week and he started acting like he used to. my friend came back from europe and i have a crush on him and i enjoy spending time with the rest of the group. but i dont know if i should put up with that guy.

then tonight bob asked if i wanted to come over and i said yes but he hadnt decided what time. it got late and i asked if we were still going to hang out and he was already out hanging out with the rest of the group. he asked if i wanted to come but i said no. he couldnt have forgotten me accedentally. i just said i didnt want to bother them by asking him to come pick me up. he said "you're loss"

so idk, maybe i've kicked out of the group. i am so confused. i hate bob. i hate the group. they drive me crazy. but now i'm all alone.

Gumleaf
October 21st, 2007, 05:46 AM
i think you would be better off not being in the group anyway. they sound like people who mess with your head just to entertain themselves. i wouldn't consider people like that as friends.

Lifesreject
October 21st, 2007, 11:41 AM
I agree with trigger they dont seem like real friends at all. I would just break awayfrom the group and find some new friends who treat you properly.

Hyper
October 21st, 2007, 06:16 PM
Ugh yeah.. Bob seems like the kind of guy who is an ego maniac and who thinks with his dick.. Problably a controll freak and a sadist like most people who are NEVER WRONG

So he problably controlls the group and doesn't want you in there..

Of course you shouldn't be in there anyway, if its full of people who can't think for themselves