What do you think I should do?

[thisisben]

I have had girlfriends in the past and enjoyed it , but then I realised strange attractions to boys for some reason which really confused me , and this was over 2 years ago , still fairly confused and I dont know whether I should come out now , or wait till I have experienced dating a guy ?

[billiam183]

Just wait till your confortable. Maybe tell a close friend?

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, you shouldn't come out, until you're sure about your sexuality.
It still sounds like you're confused.
And yeah, dating a guy, to see if you enjoy it would be a great idea.

Don't rush anything though, just take things slow, and just do whatever makes you comfortable.

[Noirtier]

I have had girlfriends in the past and enjoyed it , but then I realised strange attractions to boys for some reason which really confused me , and this was over 2 years ago , still fairly confused and I dont know whether I should come out now , or wait till I have experienced dating a guy ?

A lot of times when puberty comes about, you'll start feeling attracted to the same sex. This is perfectly normal, and tends to be known as "curiosity." Now, at this point, it appears that you've given this quite a bit of thought, and are still confused, which is ok. You would be either straight or bisexual, depending on how you feel toward each sex. If you feel emotionally and physically attracted to both sexes, then that would make you bisexual. If you're not emotionally attracted to guys, but only physically attracted to them, chances are it's still just your hormones acting up. If you're confused, then it's not the time to come out--because you don't even know yourself what you are. Give it more time, so that you can continue to figure yourself out hun. If you feel you need to date a guy to discover whether or not you're bisexual, then date a guy. But don't rush into anything, take things at your own pace. Know that we're all here to help and support you if you need it, and I wish you the best of luck on discovering yourself

[ackmedsgirl666]

dont come out and tell anybody yet until your 100% sure about your sexuality and only tell people you trust like close friends etc. you should explore more and make sure its what you actually want.

[RCT109]

Tell a close friend first

[Dimentio]

Well i dated a girl and never have had a boyfriend but i deffinitly know i am gay! Easy ways to know is just picture a female naked, If it makes you wanna be sick, You want to take the d*ck ;) My little rhyme he he, Also just picture yourself snuggle and being romantic and spending your future with a man and woman, Which one appeals to you more? Hope you find out soon and do nothing till you know for sure, Good luck :)

[DepartInSecret]

Before you come out you should make sure that you are gay. Always here if you want to chat.