Ever felt inadequate?

[Forsakenbymyself]

Have you ever felt like being "too ugly" or "not enough cute" for somebody?

I have this feeling all the time, which is stopping me from having a normal sexual and sentimental life, and of course it keeps my self-esteemvery low.

[thisisben]

Have you ever felt like being "too ugly" or "not enough cute" for somebody?

I have this feeling all the time, which is stopping me from having a normal sexual and sentimental life, and of course it keeps my self-esteemvery low.

Yes , I feel exactly the same as you , this is probably the reason why I have been single for two years !

[Lost in the Echo]

No, not really.

I've always felt that if somebody thought I wasn't good enough for them, then fuck them, i'm not trying to impress anybody.
You need to have that mindset, don't ever feel inadequate.
Just try your best at everything you do.
Don't let anyone make you feel inadequate, nobody is your judge, you are your own person. Have confidence in yourself, and give everything you do your best effort.
Have the "I don't give a fuck what anybody thinks about me" attitude.
Trying to impress, or be adequate for others will get you nowhere in life.

[Robin99]

I guess I have had good role models. My brother told me that everybody is somebody's type. I am not that self conscious or feel inadequate to someone else, but I do feel inadequate about being way too skinny. I bet you are not ugly. You are probably cuter than you think if you let others give you a chance. I'm only 13 so I don't know as much or experince bad things like some, but I bet you are worth more than you think. :yeah:

[Stryker125]

All the time. My self esteem is basically nonexistent. But you've got to remember that sometimes it's all in your head, and there's always someone out there who thinks you're attractive, and when you meet them, you can't let your views of yourself mess up a possibly good thing. No matter how scary it might be, don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Talk to people. And smile. Smiles are great.

[Pvvn]

Well, when im home, looking in my mirror i look great, atleast i think i do, but when i see my reflection in a public place i look so fugly. :(

[Dimentio]

Yeah i think i am the ugliest guy there is but my friends say i am attractive, And not to sound uptight but if i did not have acne and my thin hair and receding hairline then maybe yeah I'd think of myself good looking but cause i have this, Nope!

[xcrunner77]

sometimes i feel that way when i want to say something to somebody i like but back down thiking im not good enough or someone else is better

[LitBlackRose]

Oh yes all the time. I'm told I'm really one of the guys so I've never thought of myself as "cute" or "pretty" which makes me worried about how I am sometimes but I love who I am

[ReginaGeorge]

Only my whole life.

[irish_dude_16]

yeah :( when im home, looking in my mirror i look great, atleast i think i do, but when i see my reflection in a public place i look so ugly :/

[Forsakenbymyself]

No, not really.

I've always felt that if somebody thought I wasn't good enough for them, then fuck them, i'm not trying to impress anybody.
You need to have that mindset, don't ever feel inadequate.
Just try your best at everything you do.
Don't let anyone make you feel inadequate, nobody is your judge, you are your own person. Have confidence in yourself, and give everything you do your best effort.
Have the "I don't give a fuck what anybody thinks about me" attitude.
Trying to impress, or be adequate for others will get you nowhere in life.

That is exactly the way i act!

But it's not like i feel judged, or people tell me things.
It'sa just like, if i try to observe myself objectively, i do not find anything in myself that could be so valuable to anyone.

[anyone50]

I would worry less about how you see yourself and concentrate more how other's see you. Most of the girls i know are not as shallow as to judge someone by their looks only. Get involved just be yourself and i'm sure there will be a girl in your future

[Forsakenbymyself]

Mh.... not sure about that.


Thanks to all of you, though!

[tbonehntr]

i have that problem more often than i should, i dont engage in any sexual activity, but it does keep me from having like a girlfriend, cuz i feel too ugly for anyone to like

[Leon03]

Never really felt inadequate. Sometimes a bit maybe. But I only started to contact girls in a more boy to girl way recently. So it's maybe something I still have to experience. My older brothers friends refer to me as "cute". I'm not sure if I like it though.

[NudistKid]

i dont think im cute as such but im sure ill find the right person one day

[Hypers]

Sometimes. When I look in a mirror it looks ok, but after a while I realize I look terrible.

[armadaskiing]

Sometimes I fell it also, like I'm not inalf beautifull or inalf good for someone... And that makes me depressed, I fell pain, like everbody else is more cute than me, and I'm just the ugliest person ever lived.

[Anonimi]

sometimes, not alot, but when i look into a mirror and see my face, sometimes i think, hmm doesnt look to great :P
but ey, life is life and withh life, alot of people come, some of them must think your attractive, because i have a crush on 1 guy, but when i think of him seriously, there is nothing really that attractive about him, i just think he is.

[GabAngel06]

Not really. I'm kind of a narcissist, but not the narcissist that wants to have sex with himself. I just appreciate myself for who I am. And I think you should do the same. Trust me, there are people out there who thinks you're the most good-looking person in the world.

[jacobbillings9856]

Well, a lot of the time I definitely feel inadequat about my physical traits, and it has kept , me from asking out girls that I really liked, dont do like I did .

[Synyster Shadows]

I feel inadequate very time I see that girl I like... :'(
She hates me even though I did nothing to her