View Full Version : My brother touch me...
marie63
January 5th, 2013, 07:02 AM
My brother is 15 and I'm 14.
He usually grab my hips or slap my butt. Is that normal ? How should I react ?
tundravortex
January 5th, 2013, 08:17 AM
srry to say but thats not really normal but if you enjoy it than go right ahead....your choice
thisisben
January 5th, 2013, 09:21 AM
It isnt normal , unless you enjoy it , but it could get alot worse and it worse cases even get raped , it has happened before !
AuthorX303720
January 5th, 2013, 09:41 AM
This is really akward and needs to stop, I agree with the person above. YOU WILL GET RAPED. My male cousion did this to me and I ended up raped! Don't make the same mistake!
villain
January 5th, 2013, 09:56 AM
I mean he's just a year older than you. I'm sure it isn't anything sexual or anything you should worry about. Nothing you should overthink
Jimmy Page
January 5th, 2013, 10:01 AM
well....a warning might work
and if not a firm kick in the balls might do the trick
dBxdt
January 5th, 2013, 10:16 AM
Well, don't do anything too drastic right away. If you don't like it, tell him to stop. If he keeps doing it after, THEN do some of what guys above said. Also, it doesn't necessarily mean you'll get raped. Yes, it may happen, but it's definitely not certain. Who knows, what's going on in his mind, probably he doesn't know it himself.
But yes, if you don't like it, make it stop, he got no right to do it, just go easy from start. If you react too harshly, you're just asking for trouble, because he'll probably become violent towards you.
Lyra Heartstrings
January 5th, 2013, 01:32 PM
Quite obviously, he is going through puberty. His hormone levels are up and down, and..well, he has urges. Of course, this is not the way he should be treating a woman, or more importantly, his SISTER. This needs to stop, immediately. And if it doesn't, tell a parent.
xAlfredo
January 5th, 2013, 02:58 PM
That isn't right.
I wouldn't do this to my sister.
I would tell him to knock it off.
ackmedsgirl666
January 5th, 2013, 03:04 PM
hes your brother and your his sister therefore he shouldnt be showing any kind of sexual affection towards you. you need to make him stop what hes doing because its not aproppriate or legal.. what if your parents found out.... i would just be careful. i know hes your brother but you need to let him know how these gestures are making you feel.
marie63
January 5th, 2013, 05:14 PM
Once I asked him why he does that. He told me that he does it because I have "a nice little butt"...
tundravortex
January 5th, 2013, 05:19 PM
since hes your brother punch him because family dont say that to eachother
AuthorX303720
January 5th, 2013, 06:11 PM
BORDERING INCEST AND RAPE! BORDERING INCEST AND RAPE! Have you got your parents involved? If he trys to make a move always go for a punch in the Adam's Apple or in the you-know-where-below-the-belt. -Sid
marie63
January 6th, 2013, 11:14 AM
Yesterday, he pinched my butt. I told him to stop but he did it again this morning ...
Worthless
January 6th, 2013, 11:18 AM
Yesterday, he pinched my butt. I told him to stop but he did it again this morning ...
Tell him to leave you the fuck alone or you'll tell your parents. Jesus Christ, if somebody is touching you and it's making you uncomfortable then do what you can to make it stop. Or hey! If you want to be one of those famous incest couples you go right ahead and let him do whatever the hell he wants.
marie63
January 6th, 2013, 12:21 PM
I have a sister who is a year younger than me. I speaked with her and she told me that my brother did her the same thing...
tundravortex
January 6th, 2013, 12:45 PM
girl than you better do something because pretty soon he's gonna make his move than bad things will happen
AuthorX303720
January 6th, 2013, 06:04 PM
I have been raped before. By my male cousion, now I carry around this : http://static1.chiefsupply.com/ImageCache/Products5381-700x700-649048.jpg. He grabbed my butt last week, hit him in his foot. Broke all of his 10 toes. Jackass....
Texas warrior
January 7th, 2013, 03:38 AM
Tell your parents, if they don't do any thing, KICK HIM IN THE NUTS. He will stop, tell your sister to do the same.
PS if he hurts you in retaliation call the cops
marie63
January 7th, 2013, 03:37 PM
This morning, he pressed my boob... Unfortunately for him, I spoke with my mother and she yelled on him.
danika13
January 10th, 2013, 02:23 PM
My brother and i do stuff all the time and he has never raped me if you dont like it tell him to stop or you will tell on him.
unusedaccount
January 15th, 2013, 04:31 PM
My brother is 15 and I'm 14.
He usually grab my hips or slap my butt. Is that normal ? How should I react ?
Hmm... This is tricky, it depends if it makes you feel uncomfortable, if it does, then ask him to stop. If your fine with it, then... well... let it happen.
WickedWeekend
January 15th, 2013, 05:12 PM
You did a good job telling your mom. Keep on doing that. However, I have to disagree with the people who say to kick him in the place where it counts. That shit hurts. Sure, he will learn, but it really is just cruel.
Texas warrior
January 23rd, 2013, 10:53 AM
You did a good job telling your mom. Keep on doing that. However, I have to disagree with the people who say to kick him in the place where it counts. That shit hurts. Sure, he will learn, but it really is just cruel.
I would have to say that making unwanted passes at your younger sisters is cruel.
P.S. good job telling your parents.
janisj182
January 23rd, 2013, 03:04 PM
this one is tricky i agree, by you coming to this forum i have a feeling that it is on your mind and i would say that it is normal, however, since you had to ask if it was normal i would think tht you are not confortable with it ands so maybe it isnt right for you. it depends on your preference really
Swa19
February 13th, 2013, 10:14 PM
I was going to suggest that maybe he was doing it in a positive manner. I have heard of many scenarios where that is treated as a friendly gesture. BUT this doesn't seem that way. He is obviously going through puberty and may be a bit confused or jealous of what he sees in either porn or what he hears in real life. When I was younger i was sure jealous i couldn't get any. although i never did anything like this. Good for you for telling your parents. I hope it stops if you dont like it.
Fanta_Lover44
March 20th, 2013, 02:59 AM
No but if you like it you could join in and make it a game or.... you could tell him that you really dont feel comfterable doing this....
Skype me sometime, don't be afraid to send us a message! :)
dalton_lucian
March 23rd, 2013, 10:48 AM
kick him in the balls, if he thinks its like bro and sis messing around and not sexual, it is still weird behaviour
Jamesison
March 28th, 2013, 11:45 AM
No its not I would tell him please stop now....
frankburgess
August 20th, 2013, 07:55 PM
Marie....not normal. His hormones are raging. You need to make sure it stops before it gets worse. If you cant get him to stop, time to alert at least of your parents.
kylem
August 20th, 2013, 08:01 PM
umm I guess if your cool with it, kinda weird that its your brother though. ever ask him why he does that to you?
ByXaz
August 20th, 2013, 08:43 PM
Slap his balls and see how he reacts. If he asks just say something like "Oh I thought we were doing things like this now"
roadwarrior
August 21st, 2013, 12:14 PM
your brother is a maniac.. that's not normal by the way..
justin 13
August 21st, 2013, 01:23 PM
Totally wrong. Please tell him to stop it.
CharlieHorse
August 21st, 2013, 06:05 PM
In what way?
Like a teasing annoying brother way? Or is he like feeling you up?
DerBear
August 22nd, 2013, 08:18 AM
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