attracted to older.

[billiam183]

So im attracted to older guys. Which is kind of a problem. First it came about when I was 15 and the other guy was 19. It seemed iffy then, and I guess it was exciting, but thats it. Now, im almost 17. And theres this guy iv been seeing and hes 25.
Thats bad, isn't it? But truthfully, I've never had an emotional attraction with a guy other than him. And thats why I continue to see him.
So what do you think of the age difference? Or just the situation in general

[TheSecon2]

Man, 17 and 25 isn't bad. you're old enough to make decisions for yourself. Plus I know most places around the world it's legal for sex at 16, so man you've nothing to worry about.
Is he in it for a relationship or primarily sex? Cause if you're got a growing emotional attraction to him and he doesn't, it could cause heatbreak sometime in the future.

[billiam183]

Well ive definitely thought about it. But he actually was into me first. The way he talks seems promising, but im cautious, as always

[rusty171610]

yea seems okish. if you be cautious and like him then why not only if hes a good guy though of course. hey when your 18 I would find it better 18 and 26 so what really. 18 and 29 well thats too far in my book.

[Mysterious Skin]

I don't think that's strange at all.. I'm seriously attracted to older men, and I mean like 30+ .and I'm only 16.

[Abyssal Echo]

I guess its normal because I'm attracted to older guys too

[billiam183]

Yes but have you dated guys withbsuch an age gap?

[rogue350]

If you are under 18, you shouldn't have sex with someone over 18. It is against the law in the US. Not sure about other countries.

[billiam183]

We arent having 'sex'.
And also, question: so even though age of consent is 16. Wouldbit be illegal for say a 17 and a 19 year old?

[billiam183]

Are you saying gay people like older generally?

[Michigan48111]

I think its OK what you are doing. Be happy that's whats important.

[SirMazing]

I'm not, to me it seems strange, but WHO YOU LIKE IS WHO YOU LIKE its not like you can choose

[Codashian]

I'm attracted to older guys like 30+ their maturity and muscles get to me

[rogue350]

We arent having 'sex'.
And also, question: so even though age of consent is 16. Wouldbit be illegal for say a 17 and a 19 year old?
It is illegal for a 17 and 19 year old to engage in sexual activity. This is a federal law to keep children protected against sexual predators.

[billiam183]

It is illegal for a 17 and 19 year old to engage in sexual activity. This is a federal law to keep children protected against sexual predators.

Which is understandable. But I think most would agree 17 and 19 isnt unatural or anything. So im looking at the morality, not the lawfulness (I can be sneaky).

[BlackieChan21E]

Hmmm. I've only really been attracted to the same age, give or take a year or 2.?? Well except for this one guy who worked at the pet smart I always go to lol. The first time I met him he pretty much saw me and asked the his co worker to let him help me. Lol I've seen him 5 times since then and we always have a little laugh. But I never even knew his name. But whatever lol. But even then he couldn't have been over 25 and I was 17.

[Eric57]

Eh, I am always a little iffy about people under 18 seeing others who are older, in their 20's, etc., but I suppose it is okay. Also, there is nothing wrong at all with being attracted to older. I am actually the same exact way. I am 19, gay, and attracted to older guys. I honestly have never been attracted to anybody my age, whether it be physically or emotionally. I prefer older. Also, if makes you feel any better, last year when I was 18, I was talking to a guy who was 25.

[Santiago1618]

I don't think its strage at all...

[Ethan3939]

Might want to wait til your 18

[The_Hunger_Games]

Man, 17 and 25 isn't bad. you're old enough to make decisions for yourself. Plus I know most places around the world it's legal for sex at 16, so man you've nothing to worry about.
Is he in it for a relationship or primarily sex? Cause if you're got a growing emotional attraction to him and he doesn't, it could cause heatbreak sometime in the future.

He can't have sex with him.... He is a minor according to the law so the 25 year old would go to jail for a while and be a registered sex offender

[Jevon]

I guess that's not to bad

[DerBear]

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