do i stay or do i go?

[Bri-Bri]

im stuck between a rock and a hard place.... after visiting colorado over christmas it made me relize that i have so much to live for there. like the person im falling head over heels for! my mom!! my baby sisters! my step dad! the chance to actually go to school with more the 18 kids in my class! but i need to figure out weather to say here in idaho for the rest of high school, or go back to colorado after this semester ends?i want to go back there soooooo bad, what do i do?? HELP!!

[AuthorX303720]

Honey, I am probably the most biased source. I am sorry but I am that (lol! :D ) But come here to Colorado after the semester ends. If you want your actions are fueled by family. Then come. But if it is fueled by something else than family. Stay in Idaho. End of Story, Period. If need someone to chat with or just vent out thoughts I am here. -Sid

[Noirtier]

im stuck between a rock and a hard place.... after visiting colorado over christmas it made me relize that i have so much to live for there. like the person im falling head over heels for! my mom!! my baby sisters! my step dad! the chance to actually go to school with more the 18 kids in my class! but i need to figure out weather to say here in idaho for the rest of high school, or go back to colorado after this semester ends?i want to go back there soooooo bad, what do i do?? HELP!!

It sounds to me like you've got a lot more going for you in Colorado than you do in Idaho hun. You have a chance to be with your mother, your stepdad, who it appears that you've grown close to. A chance to be a big sister and a role model to your little sisters. To be able to watch them grow up, to get to know them when you otherwise may not be able to. While the decision is yours, if I were in your shoes, I would talk to your mother about moving in with them. And honestly, from what you've said here, it appears that you've already got your mind made up hun. If you think you would be happier there, healthier, have a better life there--then that's the place that you should be. I would stay in Idaho until the end of the semester, or even the end of the schoolyear if you wanted, but then I would seriously talk to your mom about moving in with her and your stepdad in Colorado. Keep your wellbeing in mind too, if you think that you would be better off there, then that's where you need to go. And honestly, a larger school would probably do you good, because in a school with a class of 18, it will be a total shellshock for you when you get to college, and you suddenly have a class of hundreds, if not more. The decision is yours, and it's something that you need to talk with your parents about, but I think you already know what you want to do, and that you've already made your mind up.

[Bri-Bri]

Thanks guys. I guess your right. I sorta already made up my mind!

[AuthorX303720]

Where did you choose to go or stay?

[Bri-Bri]

Where did you choose to go or stay?

Well iv been living in idaho for about two ade half years now. But i think im goin back CO.

[pokofish]

i think you go with ur heart

[AuthorX303720]

YES! Give me a yell and maybe we chat one time :)