I need help

[MrDaniel2K13]

Okay, so my ex gf lives beside my best mate and she always goes to his house to play on his xbox but never when im there and I really like her ( again ) but i don't think I can tell her because i'm afraid she'll say to him and his parents who im close with, what should I do?

[Noirtier]

If I can, may I ask why it would matter so much if your friend, and his parents, who you say you're all close with, knew that you still had feelings for your ex-girlfriend? If you want to tell her that you still like her, and as such see if there's still a chance for you two to try things again, then tell her. If you don't want to tell her, or are too afraid to tell her, then it's time to move on. If you want to move on, you have to recognize and accept that you two are through, and begin to focus on other relationships and friendships, not hers. It's up to you which path to choose, I can't choose it for you. I'm here to help and support you if you ever need it, and I wish you the best of luck.

[MrDaniel2K13]

Thanks but its hard for me to move on because girls have never fancied me and she's the only one who ever did

[ackmedsgirl666]

its never easy to get over exes :(
i feel for you i went through the same thing...
but you need to consider her feelings and how shes feeling
she could be over you and you trying to interfere old feelings might cause triggers for her she doesnt want or need.... dont be selfish and keep holding on
you need to move on.

[MrDaniel2K13]

I'd like to get close with her ( and be good friends )

[ackmedsgirl666]

well then maybe you can try and talk with her
but if you guys are exes then that might be hard
maybe shes avoiding you for a reason

[MrDaniel2K13]

I did something that annoyed her so then we broke up, she knows that I'm sorry

[ackmedsgirl666]

well then maybe you need to prove to her that your truly sorry so she understands you better thats probably the best thing for you to do right now

[MrDaniel2K13]

Ok thanks for the advice :)

[ackmedsgirl666]

no problem good luck

[Taryn98]

you broke up for a reason, it might be a crappy reason, but it happened. Trying to rekindle something is often difficult especially if she has moved on and/or isn't interested any more. If you even try to just be friends with her, you will end up wanting more and more and there's a real possiblility that she doesn't feel the same (since she broke up with you). That will make things even more difficult for you in the long run.

Breakups are never easy. Nevertheless, you need to do the difficult thing and move on. Take a chance with someone new. You never know what can happen unless you try.