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VeinceMan
October 20th, 2007, 08:48 PM
im not sure if this is to mature to post, but. ive had a girlfriend for a long time now, and i was wondering, how would you respond or act if your boyfriend asked you to suck him?

im sorry if its to much, but i dont want to ruin anything.

Silverfist64
October 20th, 2007, 08:53 PM
well i may not be a girl but i have advice for you.

if you dont fell comfortable with it or you dont want to suck him then that is ur decision. if hes just in the relationship for trying to get u to suck hinm then u may want to think things over about the realationship. you have to do what you want. dont let him make you do anything or force you to suck him.

VeinceMan
October 20th, 2007, 08:56 PM
well i may not be a girl but i have advice for you.

if you dont fell comfortable with it or you dont want to suck him then that is ur decision. if hes just in the relationship for trying to get u to suck hinm then u may want to think things over about the realationship. you have to do what you want. dont let him make you do anything or force you to suck him.

isnt that in a womans perspective though?

Silverfist64
October 20th, 2007, 08:58 PM
yes. i was tring to relate to how you should look at this situation and to help you better understand what you want to do.

VeinceMan
October 20th, 2007, 09:00 PM
thanks, that helps out, but id still like to see a girls opinion

Underground_Network
October 20th, 2007, 09:02 PM
Umm, I think Silverfist mistook you for a girl, Silverfist, look at HIS username, VeinceMAN, yeah, he's a guy. Silverfist was not trying to look at it from a woman's perspective, he simply mistook you for the girl in the relationship.

Silverfist64
October 20th, 2007, 09:06 PM
how would you respond or act if your boyfriend asked you to suck him?

sorry i looked at the last part. my bad. now for advice:D

it depends on the girlfriend. she may not feel comfortable with it and it may be a bad idea to ask her becuase it can ruin a relationship. you have to decide how you think shell take it cause we dont know her in real life. do wats best for the both of you.

VeinceMan
October 20th, 2007, 09:08 PM
i dont think it would be that bad, but im new to this.

Maverick
October 20th, 2007, 09:11 PM
You realize that no girl is the same and will respond differently? The best thing to do is to talk to your girlfriend about taking the relationship to the next level with oral sex and ask her if she is ready for that and assure her that if she isn't ready it is perfectly fine with you.

VeinceMan
October 20th, 2007, 09:18 PM
hmm, never thought of it like that. i feel stupid :) thanks for the info anthony!

Maverick
October 20th, 2007, 09:23 PM
hmm, never thought of it like that. i feel stupid :) thanks for the info anthony!
Don't feel stupid. Girls are complicated and you don't want to come across the wrong way.

Nikki9
October 24th, 2007, 10:40 AM
If my boyfriend asked me to suck him I'd probably laugh and wink and say "sure, why not?" lol. But it depends how close you are with your girlfriend. I'm very close with my boyfriend so we can talk about anything without feeling uncomfortable. Also it depends how you say it. But then again, every girl's different, as people have already said.

Fixing a Hole...
February 15th, 2012, 12:50 AM
Only if it worked out for me, too! ;)