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MasterWayne
January 4th, 2013, 06:35 AM
I'm 16 and I cum in like 5-10 minutes , sometimes faster (I masturbate with fast movement, unlike sex movement where it's slower).

Now I will be having my first sex next month or so adn I was wondering, scared actually, if I will cum too fast when having sex with a female (I'm a boy), I want long sex etc, but afraid to cum too fast because it takes 2-7 mins for me to cum when masturbating , and I would be too excited when having sex.

Help appreciated.

Abyssal Echo
January 4th, 2013, 06:43 AM
first sex for me only lasted like seconds. try jo a couple of times before sex you should last longer

DerBear
January 4th, 2013, 07:02 AM
As long as people don't give direct advice on how to increase the time taken to ejaculate then this thread will remain open. Just a little heads up to those who intend to post.

TigerBoy
January 4th, 2013, 07:10 AM
It doesn't have to be an issue at all. I can be even faster than this sometimes if I'm really worked up, but we just carry on and I always get a second one in. Sex isn't just about intercourse, there are lots of things you can do to please your partner while you recover for round two :-D

justin_winning
January 4th, 2013, 07:46 AM
don't stress dude. i can cum in 30 seconds if i want if i'm just pumping a quick one out. maybe try taking masturbation slower and stopping before you cum and waiting then going again. Sex first time you will be quick but it''s all goood

denicedak
January 4th, 2013, 09:22 AM
The only way u can last longer is by first masturbate before the action you will last longer

runner 19
June 4th, 2013, 05:17 PM
first sex for me only lasted like seconds. try jo a couple of times before sex you should last longerhold in the orgasm and you will cum later

tovaris
June 4th, 2013, 05:29 PM
try desensitising your self by frequent masterbution and holding it thight while doing that, but no mathe what there is alwais the psihological factor

sjfz
June 4th, 2013, 07:39 PM
It could take longer, especially if you use protection. Like, I can cum in 5 mins when I'm jacking off but the first time I had sex it took almost 30.

kenny89
June 5th, 2013, 04:38 PM
have oral sex first so that you ejaculate as much as possible so when you have sex its harder work to cum.

i do this with my girlfriend when we have sex and as a result ive lasted 30min before i came where as it takes 3mins when masturbate

Goonch97
June 6th, 2013, 03:41 AM
You might have a premature ejaculation condition. Usually sex lasts for at least 12 minutes, try holding back abit.

SniperKing
June 6th, 2013, 04:03 AM
Usually when you have sex it will take a little longer. Otherwise when you get close just stop and change positions to give it some recovery time and when you feel close go really slow. Don't worry about it, you'll be so in the moment you won't even be thinking about this stuff.

Clyde
June 10th, 2013, 06:12 AM
I'm yet to have sex yet, but iv'e been given a blowjob once and I was nearly done before she even got there, it only lasted about 5-10 seconds, but iv'e heard that being very quick your first time is normal and somewhat expected, iv'e heard things like doing 'maths or counting in your head' is a good way to lengthen the time before you finish

snowtrax
June 11th, 2013, 02:01 PM
Intercourse typically lasts 8 minutes so as long as you keep it slow it'll last

Harry Smith
June 11th, 2013, 02:04 PM
please don't bump old threads :locked: