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nachodragon5
January 4th, 2013, 06:20 AM
The thing is that I am being drawn towards boys that girls. I know that I am bi-curious but the things that I am doing I think are getting too far but I don't even know anymore. I mean yes I like a lot of girls in my school and also boys but looking up photos of boys from tv is getting too far. I can't even think straight and I need help with this. Is this just a phase? I know that I'm not gay but seriously I am lost. Please help
TigerBoy
January 4th, 2013, 06:31 AM
Why is looking up pics of cute boys 'too far'? If you like looking at them, so what?
"Phases" don't exist as far as sexual orientation. What you do get is hormones making you horny and try stuff out of curiosity, but this sounds like you already found out that you get turned on by guys. If you are turned on by cute guys as well as girls, you have twice as much eye candy as most of us, so congrats on that :P
If you don't like the idea of having sex with a guy, then don't do it. If you like the idea and want to try it, then go for it. Sex is supposed to be fun, and if you can have fun with guys as well as girls, then where's the problem?
Lost in the Echo
January 4th, 2013, 06:35 AM
It's normal, you're in puberty so your hormones are raging, and causing you to be unsure of your sexuality.
It's best to put a label on yourself after puberty, after the hormones have settled.
Really though, "Straight" "Gay" and "Bi" are just meaningless labels.
Don't stress over this, just go with the flow, because there is nothing you can do about whatever sexual orientation you are.
It should be clearer to you after puberty though, once your hormones have settled.
Seriously though, don't stress over this. :)
Abyssal Echo
January 4th, 2013, 06:46 AM
It's normal, you're in puberty so your hormones are raging, and causing you to be unsure of your sexuality.
It's best to put a label on yourself after puberty, after the hormones have settled.
Really though, "Straight" "Gay" and "Bi" are just meaningless labels.
Don't stress over this, just go with the flow, because there is nothing you can do about whatever sexual orientation you are.
It should be clearer to you after puberty though, once your hormones have settled.
Seriously though, don't stress over this. :)
I have to agree with Bo
nachodragon5
January 6th, 2013, 11:50 PM
what if its becoming into an obsession o.o
qwertrew23
January 7th, 2013, 12:01 AM
What if it is? Just go with the motions, and do what you feel is best, not what you think is. Your heart and, by extension, dick know what they want, so give it to them. Maybe you are more leaning to one side of the curious side than another, but it is, and I say this with the deepest regret, only natural. And it is not an obsession. You just think it is because that is how you want to try to think. You are normal, but at the same time a completely different person. Just do what you feel is right
BakeBake
January 7th, 2013, 01:29 AM
The thing is that I am being drawn towards boys that girls. I know that I am bi-curious but the things that I am doing I think are getting too far but I don't even know anymore. I mean yes I like a lot of girls in my school and also boys but looking up photos of boys from tv is getting too far. I can't even think straight and I need help with this. Is this just a phase? I know that I'm not gay but seriously I am lost. Please help
I have the same problem, I know I like girls for sure, but I always look at photos of boys and compare me to them, while I am doing that I get hard. It is just a phase though, when we get through it, we may think looking at guys is weird, just wait and we will soon be through it. As long as you don't want to marry a man and spend the rest of your life with him, then you are not gay, so don't worry.
DepartInSecret
January 7th, 2013, 01:20 PM
You can do anything you like. If you enjoy it and it us not hurting anyone then what is the harm in it. Now I am not saying that you are gay but it is important to remember that there is nothing wrong with being gay.
It is very possibly a phase so don't worry about it in the end it is your decision.
Santiago1618
July 15th, 2013, 02:01 AM
You definetly can do anything you like... Your decision
Jasperf
July 15th, 2013, 05:21 AM
The thing is that I am being drawn towards boys that girls. I know that I am bi-curious but the things that I am doing I think are getting too far but I don't even know anymore. I mean yes I like a lot of girls in my school and also boys but looking up photos of boys from tv is getting too far. I can't even think straight and I need help with this. Is this just a phase? I know that I'm not gay but seriously I am lost. Please help
If you 'know your not gay' then where is the problem?
Ethan3939
July 18th, 2013, 02:50 PM
Could be normal I guess. Everyone's curious about stuff.
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