i don't want to be gay - no offense to anyone

[staying_alive]

I really hope it's just hormones. But i see this guy at school and i just think that he's really cute. I mean, sometimes i think i want to have sex with him but i don't know. I've never felt this way about any guy before.....but i still have a girlfriend and i want to keep a relationship with her. is this hormones? please help!:wub::confused:

[Silverfist64]

right now it is just hormones. your going through a stressful time in your life because the hormone levels are at their greatest and cause some people to look at the same sex even if they dont want to

[Serenity]

Relationships and Dating :arrow: Teen Sexuality

Wanting to have sex with a guy you find attractive does not make you gay. Having an emotional attachment towards a guy you find attractive does. Remember, sexuality is determined by physical and emotional feelings, whereas purely physical feelings are due to hormones. So, in conclusion, yes I think it's safe to say you're straight and continue to have a lovely relationship with your girlfriend :daisy:

[Silverfist64]

nice advice Valerie. If you didnt understand what i said its pretty much the same thing but not as well put.

[Serenity]

lol we posted at almost exactly the same time or I would've made reference to yours :P

[staying_alive]

thanks everyone.....makes me feel better. again, no offense to anyone

[Serenity]

Quite alright :daisy:

[byee]

Unfortunately, I was addressing 'other issues' which prevented me from responding sooner.

I'll agree with Val (as I usually do), and add that 'wanting' something (like some kind of sexual encounter with a guy) doesn't make you anything but human, really. Fantasies/curiosities are normal products of a healthy brain, really. And as long as they stay there, they mean nothing (and even if they become behaviors, it doesn't always mean much, either).

There's also something about us guys that prevents us from being able to acknowledge male beauty/attractiveness, it's one of those unspoken guy rules (up there with 'no touching'). Which of course is silly, guys can be nice looking, and other guys can notice that, and even be attracted to it.

If you're happy with your G/F, there's nothing to be confused or anxious about, and as Val said, continue to enjoy her. Your attraction to him is probably just a result of your being observant.

[crash007]

Hey im going through the same thing as you are and it is confusing. I agree with all the previous posts. hang in there.

[RequiemForADeath]

being gay myself i dont think it has anything to do with hormones. you may just like both sexes. which is fine.

good luck in your decision.

[crazycoller]

im a strait guy and goin through the same thing... the top 2 r right... its just hormones... keep it goin with the gf

[Gumleaf]

im a strait guy and goin through the same thing... the top 2 r right... its just hormones... keep it goin with the gf

please don't post in old threads.

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