Not sure what to do...

[Pickletickler]

Hello, this is going to take quite a bit of explaining since its been happening over a long period of time. Basically a while back i met this girl and i didn't feel as if i liked her in a relationship way back then but we've been friends since then and she seemed to like me (Only from my guess because she used to stand close and try to talk with me and i was shy so i'd like twiddle my keys or whatever and then she'd try to twiddle them too and interact with me + some other clues) but since i didn't feel as if i liked her i kinda just stayed her friend and she stopped doing those things since i guess she realised but we did start to talk Alot over facebook over 2000 messages in our conversation and like if we just saw eachother i'd already have a message when i got back etc but recently that conversation petered out and we didn't really meet up as often (we both go to a club together on thursdays so i still see her) but ever since it died off i just haven't been able to stop thinking about her. For a few consecutive nights now i dreamt about her and i don't really know what to do about it and if i feel like having a relationship or not. any suggestions appreciated idk what the hell to do :P

[Noirtier]

It appears to me that you are just wondering the "what ifs". You said you never liked her in that way in the past, and I think that your mind is just, well, wondering what would have happened if you had followed her advances. She's floating around your subconscious because you've been thinking about her during the day, hence why she's been in your dreams lately. In my opinion, you don't really like her in that way, and you never did. Just try to distract your mind, keep your focus on other relationships/friendships and other things, and I would venture to guess that sooner or later the thoughts would pass

[Taryn98]

Sounds like she realized nothing was going to happen and lost interest. And in classic fashion, once she didn't show you affection, you became more interested in her. Sounds like a movie or something.

If you're intrested, just ask her out and see what happens. If not, then accept that your friendship may have run its course and move on. Debating what to do next is the worst and the longer you wait, the less likely you'll get a positive response.