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Steffanie2020
January 3rd, 2013, 10:52 PM
So I just kind of recently came out to my friends at school and I feel pretty good about it but other people don't know and I guess are afraid to ask me so test me. When I say "test me" I mean the girls will act flirty, smack my ass, or even play truth or dare asking me questions like what kinda guys do you prefer? I want to know how do I tell other people im a lesbian without being weird and random about it? I can tell some people are dying to know my sexuality.
p.s, I go to a school where sexuality isn't being discriminated on so it wont be a problem for majority of the people.
HELP ME PLEASE!
ackmedsgirl666
January 3rd, 2013, 10:54 PM
well whenever people ask just be open and tell them
i dont feel comfortable when your fllirty with me because i am not interested in females
i am a homosexual and i am proud of it... and it might be hard for some people to accept but atleast you would be out in the open and wouldnt feel in denial anymore
AuthorX303720
January 3rd, 2013, 11:43 PM
I sorta feel like this is sexual harrassmet. Maybe go talk to a teacher. If I was in your shoes I would feel really uncomfrotable. Your sexuality shouldn't be tested.
ReginaGeorge
January 3rd, 2013, 11:52 PM
If this "testing" gets too far or makes you uncomfortable, tell a teacher, or counselor, and also tell these people to stop. They shouldn't be touching you, especially in private areas, like butt, I'd still count.
Next time people ask you what guys you like, say females ones. It'll confuse them but you'll have their attention then you can announce that you don't really like guys. Maybe next time people are talking about boyfriends or girlfriends, if you have one or are interested in someone, tell them about her. Next time they're talking about who's hot and who's not, comment on females you think are hot.
Or next time someone tests you, just say flat out, 'I'm gay, you can stop now', that is if your comfortable with that of course.
Good luck.
Dimentio
January 4th, 2013, 11:34 PM
Well if there won't be an issue just tell everyone :) My biggest regret once i left school was not being honest and not being me, So in college if people ask i tell people, And i be me, As i can tell you know it is a lot easier life style and you feel free! Good luck :)
RCT109
January 5th, 2013, 12:17 AM
just tell them
i mean I had the same thing wen I came out to some friends as being bi
just tell them thats all
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