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TaylrJ
January 3rd, 2013, 04:30 PM
My and my friend are real close, at least we use to be. We would always talk everyday and then we got out of school for Christmas break. Today we came back and he hasn't talked to me, not once. The thing is, he talks to literally everybody else but me. I would try so hard to start a conversation with him or try to spend time with him during school and he just ignores me. If I go somewhere he is, he suddenly isn't there anymore. He avoids me.

Well, I'll just say it now, I'm bi and I have a crush on him, it's been since the beginning of the year, around the same time we started talking. We are both 15 and we are real close. So close to the point to where everybody started thinking we were gay together. But I know that's not the reason he is avoiding me. People started thinking that a long time ago and we both don't care. I can give you an example of how close we were if you want to read this:
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=153137

Reading that explains how we use to be together all the time, always laughing, and him always texting me. Now it's not like that anymore and to be honest, it makes me sad. I miss how he would always laugh at everything I'd do, no matter how stupid. He would always want to hang out and he was always so nice to me. I miss everything with him, I loved him, and he was my friend. I just think it's weird how over a two week break it's like we don't even know each other.. And what's weirder, two nights ago I saw him at the mall with one of his friends and we hung out the whole entire time.

Now since he suddenly hasn't even made an effort to talk to me, it's confusing and I don't understand why. I didn't do anything, I haven't been annoying him any, I just don't understand. Could you help? Also, if you could read that other forum before answering this one, it'd be great. Thanks.

ackmedsgirl666
January 3rd, 2013, 04:42 PM
Maybe he's decided since its a new year that he wants to make a few changes that being said maybe he's rethinking his choice of friends. Sorry your so down man
But as the saying goes friends will come and go but family is there forever
But if your really determined maybe try and talk to some of his friends and see what's going on. If you get a bad vibe from them then something is definately up
I am sorry he is treating you this way but if he is choosing to be immature then maybe you should consider your choice of friends and move on. It will be hard I went through the same thing weeks before my christmas break. Me and my best friend of 5 years stopped talking but it was a whole different situation. See what you can do but if doesn't lighten up his attitude towards you then sorry to say you should move on
You will make more friends BETTER ONES eventually