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Irishperson15
January 3rd, 2013, 01:44 PM
Right, I'm pretty sure im straight, but i think im attracted to my best friend, is this normal to be only attracted to one member of the same sex? Im not really attracted to many other guys
zerosix22
January 3rd, 2013, 02:56 PM
are you kind off attracted to him sexually or his behavior? it really depends you know, if you are attracted to him because of his behavior there's nothing to worry about but if you are sexually attracted to him, its the other way around.
tterb
January 3rd, 2013, 04:07 PM
you could just be curious!
acurasrock
January 3rd, 2013, 09:32 PM
I think you have a little boycrush on your friend, It's normal, I've had a few.
Kagetora103
January 5th, 2013, 06:23 AM
If you're not attracted to any other men, then it's just mental and doesn't have anything to do with orientation.
I'm gay, but I've met girls that I get along with really well, to the point that I'm confident I could marry one of them... if we never had sex.
I think that to determine your sexual orientation, you need to think about each gender on a purely physical level and see if you're sexually attracted to it,
and that may be hard to do when you're young since you can get turned on by practically anything.
But to answer your question, I think it's normal.
just one of those "if only he were a woman" situations.
I've had 3 in my life, except it was more of an "if only I were straight/she were a man"
thisisben
January 5th, 2013, 06:25 AM
You are bi curious unless you physically want to make out with him ! It's a confusing age !
BakeBake
January 5th, 2013, 06:27 AM
Right, I'm pretty sure im straight, but i think im attracted to my best friend, is this normal to be only attracted to one member of the same sex? Im not really attracted to many other guys
I am the same way, I think it is just puberty and hormones, as long as you just want to experiment with him it is okay, but if you want to get super serious and date and stuff and soon hope to get married then you will be considered gay.
Irishperson15
January 5th, 2013, 06:33 AM
Haha no im not that extreme, thanks
Leon03
January 5th, 2013, 06:42 AM
Right, I'm pretty sure im straight, but i think im attracted to my best friend, is this normal to be only attracted to one member of the same sex? Im not really attracted to many other guys
Guess it's normal. Right now I feel pretty much the same way. Decided to do nothing before I thought twice ;)
omfgwtf
January 5th, 2013, 08:00 AM
I think people can go through gay phases in puberty
simplycomplicated
January 5th, 2013, 09:40 AM
I'm attracted to my male friends sometimes too, but still my main interest are girls. So I guess I'm straight curious.
jgjkk
January 20th, 2013, 05:02 PM
it's just curiosity, you're most probably just physically attracted to the idea of doing stuff with him
xJohn
January 27th, 2013, 01:02 AM
Yeah, I feel like that towards my best friend
Straya
January 27th, 2013, 01:05 AM
Sounds like you got a little crush on him It's completly normal
luccatural
April 24th, 2013, 08:23 PM
Hormones...
eggs2006
April 25th, 2013, 04:10 AM
If you're not attracted to any other men, then it's just mental and doesn't have anything to do with orientation.
I'm gay, but I've met girls that I get along with really well, to the point that I'm confident I could marry one of them... if we never had sex.
I think that to determine your sexual orientation, you need to think about each gender on a purely physical level and see if you're sexually attracted to it,
and that may be hard to do when you're young since you can get turned on by practically anything.
But to answer your question, I think it's normal.
just one of those "if only he were a woman" situations.
I've had 3 in my life, except it was more of an "if only I were straight/she were a man"
Is that what proves you are gay? You could never enjoy sex with a girl?
magman
April 25th, 2013, 08:42 AM
you could just be curious, crazy hormones
Ben4ever
April 29th, 2013, 12:46 PM
I can identify with this. sort of. I have one girl that I am sexually attracted to. she is the only girl that I would want to have sex with. I hope we are both normal!!
countryboi9
April 29th, 2013, 06:05 PM
its all very normal. i went through it
xmojox
April 29th, 2013, 06:10 PM
Is that what proves you are gay? You could never enjoy sex with a girl?
There's a really good sticky in the sexuality forum. It's worth reading, because honestly, sexuality is about more than physical attraction. It's good, accurate information.
The_Hunger_Games
April 29th, 2013, 08:26 PM
yes its normal... its just hormones
sartbimpson55
April 29th, 2013, 08:29 PM
me too it's just hormones
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