DO? or DON'T? What do you think?

[shadman]

First off, I haven't been on here in for like EVER! lol I'm gonna be 20 in this year so that makes my account expiered, so I'm post this now.

When I was about 17-18, I found this sit. I was having "thoughts" about the same sex. This sit made me understand Bicurioseness(Doubt that's spelled right), and that being Bi-sexuall is okay. I've been juming back and fourth to beinf curiose to being bisexual. Well that has a little bit to do with my question, but I wanted you to know where I'm coming from...

I have this friend. I'm pretty sure his curiose, because he shows it alot lol. I want to expariment badlly to see if the thought of being with a guy is more erotic then actually BEING with a guy. I think he's tried to get me to stay the night and prob do "stuff" me.

I don't know if I should prosue him. Like I have my doubts, not the fact that he tell anyone, I know I can trust him on that. But the after math. I seen a pic of his "member" before, when I was looking throw his pics on his phone. Well...:wub: lets just say it wasn't the worst thing I ever seen lol. the thing is should I. I don't love him, and if we do the do I just want to be his friend in the end. But I don't want to continue to question my sexuality and not knowing if I truely have any feelings for guys. That and I've been sexually frustrated with having almost no time to my self.

Well here's my question. Should I, or shounldn't I? Yeah, I have to talk to him first, but should I? That is my question. Sorry this is long, I've been kinda looking for a reason to write lol

[ReginaGeorge]

If you're both up for it, and know the possibility of the consequences afterward (like, no answer regarding sexuality/wanting to do it again/friendship being awkward for a while), then I don't see the harm. You should ask him about it, in my opinion. Although I listed 'no answer regarding sexuality' as a consequence, it could also be the opposite way around, this shows you what your sexuality is.

As for getting feelings for guys, there's no real way to know if you can/will until it happens, you're unfortunately on your own for that one.

Good luck.

[Abyssal Echo]

Idk if I would pursue him but if the situation presents its self I'd go for it. you wont know if you like sex with a guy to you try it. As for your friendship it may or may not change a thing.

[shadman]

It's not the friendship that I'm worried about, I know we'd still be friends after it. I just don't know if I should do it with him.