Penis too big/:

[JakeW1996]

I'm 16 and my penis is 8.5 in long. Me and my girlfriend were at her house alone and she was gonna give me a bj. It was the first time she had seen it and she was shocked! Not in a good way as you may have expected.. Before she had seen it she really wanted to lose her virginity to me but now she is too scared that it will hurt her. i don't know what to tell her and this situation really sucks because i love her and i want her to be the one.. What should i do?

[nick666]

I have no experience so this might not be fully right. maybe tell her how much you love her and how you cant control how big you are but you will be really careful? I think the loving her bit is what you need to tell her first

[JakeW1996]

I have no experience so this might not be fully right. maybe tell her how much you love her and how you cant control how big you are but you will be really careful? I think the loving her bit is what you need to tell her first

I told her id be as gentle as i possibly could. even use lube.. i told her we could do it however she wanted to..

[Trinity_15]

is she is a virgin the first time will hurt no matter your size. if she is horny and you use lube it will be a little bit better. and remember all vaginas stretch to accommodate different sizes.

[DoctorWho]

Haha... Have the same problem, I am 8.5 also and my girlfriend was too scared to even give my a blowjob... I would be proud, I guess.... Better than small and having her laugh!

[Hazza121]

Just give it time

[Avamis]

Well you should talk to her first and tell her you are going to be gentle and u wont hurt her and stuffs like that. You should make her feel comfotable, make her feels that u are here not and if it hurts her u can try make it better.

[Marek1]

I have exactly same size. I'm not sure if I can give you any good advice since I'm not experienced in sex. I guess it is more the thickness than length that makes girls be scared. All I can say it is sure that being too big is better than being too small!

[deanbrodi]

Your stiff cock is still shorter than a new-born baby, so it can't possibly hurt her. Tell her that, & tell her that you'll just slowly poke your way inside her, to give her time to get used to your unusual size. You really are blessed :)

[Eric57]

I'm not that big and I've never been in the situation, but just tell her that you will be as gentle as you possibly can. The truth is, it is going to hurt the first time regardless of the penis size. So if she is worried about hurting, then there is nothing she can do.

[ThatGuy69]

Wow, first off I'm jealous. Tell her it hurts for everyone on their first time and that the vagina is stretchy so it will accommodate you. Have you fingered her? If you do it will prepare the vagina a bit more for you

[coolman12]

Lucky

[WonderTastic]

This must really suck. Welcome to the club i am over 8in but i haven't had this problem because my pursuit of chastity. I just hope my lover actually loves my size anyway back to you. I think you two should really sit and talk. Dont pressure her and let set all the rules for the first time be very surpportive and kind. She feel safe and know that if there is a problem you guys can fix it together.

[JakeW1996]

So um.. We had sex last night and she was ver relieved.. thanks everyone for the support(:

[hamtown]

there ya go! always works out n the end!

[Tylermx27]

Idk man tell her that you'll start by just going in a little then if she likes it the go a little farther each time

[BakeBake]

I would say that if you are going to have sex just tell her that you will not stick it all the way in.

[prawn18]

I've found it's the width that hurts, not the length. Cos you can always just not put some of the length in...

[Tylermx27]

Talk to her and get
Down heart to heart

[RecklesslyMe]

went thru this too, glad it worked out for ya!

[Nellerin]

I'm 16 and my penis is 8.5 in long. Me and my girlfriend were at her house alone and she was gonna give me a bj. It was the first time she had seen it and she was shocked! Not in a good way as you may have expected.. Before she had seen it she really wanted to lose her virginity to me but now she is too scared that it will hurt her. i don't know what to tell her and this situation really sucks because i love her and i want her to be the one.. What should i do?

Tell her you will be gentle, that is not so big that it will be bad. Losing her virginity will hurt no matter what, at least slightly. And, maybe a little more because of your slightly larger than normal size. But, it should not hurt her.

Just don't be too rough with her, and you will be fine, and where a condom with lube on outside to make it easier for her to deal with. Not to mention the condom is always a good idea anyways lol.

[StoneColdNicky]

Put her in the drivers seat, so to speak, so she can sort of be the one in control and be as gentle as she needs or build herself up.

[crispxtra]

tell her that why would the human body have a penis that would hinder the other sex...biologically makes no sense she will be fine just take it slow

[sdude]

I've found it's the width that hurts, not the length. Cos you can always just not put some of the length in...

Definitely....found out myself that the HARD way...lol..ouch!!

[PetrusRomanus]

It's too big. However I think it is bad to have sex to a person you are not bind into a marriage. Sex is for married person only that I firmly beleive.

[henry5331]

I'm 16 and my penis is 8.5 in long. Me and my girlfriend were at her house alone and she was gonna give me a bj. It was the first time she had seen it and she was shocked! Not in a good way as you may have expected.. Before she had seen it she really wanted to lose her virginity to me but now she is too scared that it will hurt her. i don't know what to tell her and this situation really sucks because i love her and i want her to be the one.. What should i do?

Whatever you do don't force it on her! That would be so wrong. You might have to do other things for a while until she's ready to try it. You have fingers and a tongue.

[BenL17]

Tell her how length won't hurt her. I am average length, maybe slightly above, but I am extremely thick, and first two times I tried sex it literally didn't fit.

[hockeyfan]

Finger here a couple if times on different occasions using lube. Then do it.

[kylem]

I'm almost 8" but I havent shown any girls really. not even my last gf so idk what they would do if they saw it. they like felt it through my shorts but that's about it.

[Harley Quinn]

Don't bump old threads. :locked: