Was this weird of me to say on Facebook?

[Cicero]

Alright I'll give you a little background. So this girl and I as well as a group of other people all used to go camping. So a few years ago I found her on Facebook and sent her a friend request. A few months later I sent her another one. Then she denied it. So about a year and a half later, a few days ago. I search for her name again. This time, I find two accounts for the same person. I sent a friend request to the new account, and two days later, today, she accepted it. This account seemed a lot more like hers. Cause there were updates and personal photos of her. Whereas the other Facebook account had kept the same picture of her since the last time I sent a friend request to it (last year). Nothing was really new, she had about a thousand Facebook friends and all the friends we have in common.

So today, I wanted to test the waters, to see if the other one was hacked or something.

So I sent her a private message to her Facebook account saying
"Hey how've you been? I was sure if you knew this but there are two Facebook accounts of you. I sent a request to the other one, but I figured that account was either a fake or got hacked. Well I just wanted to let you know incase you weren't aware of it" and that's it.

Did that seem weird or abnormal? How would you respond to it?


For some reason I've gotten a vibe from her that she didn't like me. Although most of that vibe was cause she never accepted my faceboo friend request. But our families are really close, my dad is extremely close to her dad (but me and her aren't close at all). At camping she made a remark about dirt being under my nails and she said "eww that's gross" but that was like 3-4 years ago. I saw her last year (or the year before cause I went to her house with my dad so they can play cards) and she was pretty nice to me. Nothing really seemed bad or anything. She wasn't super nice to me, but not mean either. Just casual.

[Gandalf]

To be perfectly blunt, you met once or twice. Is it possible she even remembers you?

I don't mean to sound rude here, but I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill.

I don't think it was weird of you to contact her. -You were just being friendly.

To be personally frank, and I may be a hypocrite here. I see your posts over the silliest little things. (Now that's just my opinion) I think you should try and just enjoy what happens as it comes, I myself have the problem of reading far too much into things and it really doesn't help me. Perhaps it will help you too if you just try and think logically about these social situations and then trust your own judgement.

Hope I helped :)

[JakeW1996]

Not weird.. I would be wondering. the same thing. Maybe she just forgot the password or maybe she doesn't remember you.

[Cicero]

To be perfectly blunt, you met once or twice. Is it possible she even remembers you?

I don't mean to sound rude here, but I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill.

I don't think it was weird of you to contact her. -You were just being friendly.

To be personally frank, and I may be a hypocrite here. I see your posts over the silliest little things. (Now that's just my opinion) I think you should try and just enjoy what happens as it comes, I myself have the problem of reading far too much into things and it really doesn't help me. Perhaps it will help you too if you just try and think logically about these social situations and then trust your own judgement.

Hope I helped :)
No I've known her for years, and we've spent a total of 12 days camping together along with another group, our parents consider each other family, and I've seen her at her house maybe 3x and she's come over to my about 2x. She knows me

[HunterSteele]

I see your posts over the silliest little things. (Now that's just my opinion) I think you should try and just enjoy what happens as it comes, I myself have the problem of reading far too much into things and it really doesn't help me. Perhaps it will help you too if you just try and think logically about these social situations and then trust your own judgement.
No no no-- this has something to do with the girl finding out about his browsing history.

[Cicero]

No no no-- this has something to do with the girl finding out about his browsing history.

No -_-

[Mirage]

Yeah this really doesn't seem like a strange thing to do, you were just being a good friend.