Lost my friend ( I think )

[Aidoon123]

Ok I made a new friend a few months ago on this website ( but I'm not going to go into that ) Anyway he hasen't replied too any of my emails since the end of November. I felt really happy talking too him, it really brightened up even the worst of days for me too see an email from him. After the first few days without and email I was feeling fine saying he must be gone somewhere with no computer but after a full month I'm very worried. SInce then I have started too get really worried about things that may have happened which in turn is making me paranoid and upset. I didn't say anything too upset him ( atleast I don't think I have ) Its just really freaking me out and I don't know why I have gotten so attached in this short time but I have. I just need help form people who can tell me how too deal with this, thanks

[HUSTLEMAN]

He probably left the site for awhile or he's too busy to get on VT nowadays. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

[Noirtier]

Well, if he's been on VT since you sent your last email, and he hasn't responded to your email, it appears that he, for whatever reason, is done talking to you and doesn't wish to pursue things any further. But, if he hasn't been on VT since then, that's a different story. Take into account that he could have been grounded, or that he may have been very busy as the end of the quarter/semester began to take effect in school. Maybe something came up as far as his family goes. First I want to say, try and calm down. Keep your mind off of it for a while, maybe stop checking your email for a bit. Don't obsess over maybe getting an email from him. And I would also say that, if you were really that attached t him, that you're freaking out this much, maybe a little break isn't a bad thing. In my opinion, life probably just caught up to him and he probably hasn't had time to respond. I'm sure if you're just patient, he'll respond. Just give him a bit of time. And try distracting your mind, watch tv or a movie, or read a book, talk to someone else even. I know it's hard, but I wish you good luck and I'm sure you'll hear from him sometime soon :) If you ever feel you need to talk, we're always here to help and support you!

[Aidoon123]

No the last email I got was also the last day he was on the site, but still that is a long time. I understand with School, Family and Christmas things must be hectic but even on my busiest days I can find five minutes too check my email. I don't know guys :(