i hope you know i hate you now

[skullprincess]

(this is only for me to get my emotions out my boyfriend was annoying me and I just need to vent so this probably won't make sense but its not supposed to because its from.me to me :p feel free to ignore)
you dumb fuck. you are the reason im mad in the first place. you made me mad the least you can do is fix it. what the fuck is your problem dude? why do you put certain gay people into your "jokes"? I could make plenty of jokes about how stupid,ugly, and ignorant you are. what a dick. you say I talk about your friends? I don't go e a flying fuck about them I don't know them why would I care? oh, I worry about that one girl....she's a stupid whore you just don't see it. it started in 9th grade when this bitch tried to get me to break up with my boyfriend and she later admitted it was because she liked the kid. -_- she needs to get a life and stay out of mine. and supposedly she's talking shit about me. what a two face. she looks me in the eye and says we are friends and acts so friendly. at least I have the decency to publicly display I hate you. and to.my "lovely" boyfriend: wow. I can't believe you take her side over mine we have dated a year and you let some bitch just walk up and start saying shit? just wow. and you have been acting like a jerk lately. and when I get angry its "unacceptable" what a hypocrite. you are 18 act like it! when I get angry I say so and I tell you why. you have a little bitch fit and don't text me -_- wow what a man we have here. im not 18 and yeah some days ill act like a bitch and childish but I think we both need to grow the fuck up

[Noirtier]

I think we both need to grow the fuck up

I agree with this wholly and completely. You'll be 18 soon, and he's already 18. Because both of you are acting a bit childish. You say shit about his friends, but then get mad when he says shit about other people? And honestly, just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean he's compelled to take your side in anything and everything. He is entitled to his own opinions, and if he thinks that someone else is right, he has every right to take their side over yours. I do think that you two need to talk this out in person though, because you're both mad. The fact that he won't text you back may seem like a douche move, but in his mind I think he thinks he would rather not text you back than say something out of anger that he didn't really mean. Let him cool off for a bit, and you need to cool off for a bit too. Then talk about it in person, after you've both calmed down. I would address the issue of the "He's allowed to get mad but I'm not" because in a relationship, if that's really how things are, then that's not healthy. I wish you the best of luck, and hope you guys get things worked out!

[AuthorX303720]

Good way to unbottle you anger. Does your boyfriend hate you. Well, you gave the motherfucker reason

[FreeFall]

Where is your relationship standing at (informal, serious, open)?
Both of you being 18/around that age, dating is more serious than when you were in 8th grade. It's when adults begin to find other adults to be with. That said, why are you with this guy?

If my boyfriend let some girl walk up, say shit about me, and he picked her side, then I'd tell him he can leave and be with her. He has the right to his opinion and he has the right to agree with her sure. My boyfriend will run a verbal steam roller over any girl who dares talk down about me to him in hopes of breaking us up, and there have been a few, and he's done it every time. He's got my back, he's got my side, he's got me. Loyal and devoted, and I do the same for him.

When a guy, your guy, is committed to a girl, devoted to a girl, and loves that girl, he better damn well man the hell up and stand by that girl. When he's picking one girl out of millions that he could be with, when he's picking one girl he may possibly spend the rest of his life with (not that he will, just that the potential is there), he needs to be her unit, the other half of the relationship, and he needs to stand with her.
Not against her, or he's better off leaving.
More so when he knows you don't like this girl, more so when he doesn't seem to know her.

You've got yourself a man-child, and he's got little miss. You sound angry, pent up, irritated, and he...from your post he sounds like he's his own can of worms. What beneft of these people do you get? Why are they in your life?

Maybe you need to sit down, search your soul, and find out what it is you need at this point in your life, grow up a little bit more, why these people are in your life and what they bring to it that isn't hurting you, and if they aren't helping you grow and live and be a happy person, then shut them out. You're allowed to do that.
Pretending people are dead isn't immature, in reality, people only say it is because they cannot stand being ignored. People hate being ignored, and will say whatever they can to bring down the person ignoring them. But it's healthy actually, to distance yourself from a person of negative value in your life. So if you're killing them off to yourself, then that's what you need. If that upsets other people, oh well, it bothers them so much they can go be with that person and make-up for you ignoring them.