Dont know what to do: Curiousity/Exploring

[SirMazing]

So lately, I've been a little curious which I know is normal. See I want to expirement with my friend(s) all the time. Yet there are times that I think about it, and I don't think I should do it even if I want to. I know you guys will say that if I'm comftorable to do it and if I'm not comftorable to do it, don't do it. I mean i want to do it and don't want to at the same time. One minute I want explore and then the next I don't want to, and back and forth. :confused:

[Allain1996]

Since you seem to have not quite made up your mind, all I can suggest is that you don't do something that you'll regret. If you do experiment right now and then realize that you really didn't want to, you'll probably really regret experimenting, but no matter what you can't change what you've already done.
On the other side of this, if you don't experiment right now and later on decide you're sure that you want to experiment and definitely won't regret it, then no loss, just experiment then and you'll always be happy! :)
Good luck bro, and as I said, do what's right for you so that you won't regret it later!

[IAMWILL]

This is a pretty common thought process. I think its because you probably struggle to justify experimenting with the same sex because you know that doing so is a bit of social taboo as well as contrary to your sexual orientation (assuming you're straight). If you have liked and been sexually attracted to women all your life but now all of the sudden you are physically attracted to guys, it can wreck a bit of havoc on your thoughts and conscious.

Personally I know 100% I'm straight and that I don't want to do anything with another guy, but sometimes I am tempted to for reasons I can't yet comprehend.

[PaPa]

I feel the same thing..

[nick666]

yeah I was the same, it is just you reconsidering it. I was the same way, just do what you are comfortable with

[Irishperson15]

yea you sound a little bit like me, maybe its because you know ur friends wont do it?

[princess09]

ive been through the same thing as you, i think its inportsnt you experiment with someone you can trust so that nobody finds out, do what your comfortable with, start off slow even if it is just a kiss see what you like. its like when you masturbate find out what works best for you .

[SirMazing]

yea you sound a little bit like me, maybe its because you know ur friends wont do it?

Yeah I feel like non of my friends do that. I also I felt like no other guys expirement or j/o, but I'm proven wrong. So yeah :eek:

[ThatGuy69]

I was like that the first time, but after I got it over and done with it was great fun and I'm so glad I did do it the first time because it opens you up to something new and different

[Leon03]

I feel exactly the same way. One hand curiosity other hand doubts.
Firstly I don't know how to start it.
Secondly I am afraid of my friends' reaction because I was just starting to grow pubes beginning of this school year and I guess I am much less developed than all the others.
Thirdly they might consider me gay or perverted.

[WonderTastic]

I basically have all you guys feels and fears. I really want to ask my friends but i am just too scared to even try. Plus i tried with my cuz and it turned sour. I almost got two of my good friends to do it but we didnt have a place.

[MickeyMouse13]

Don't do anything that you will regret, if you want to do it, then go for it, but only if you, and your friend(s), are comfortable :)