i need advice...

[welcome_to_chaos]

So just recently this guy I liked came back from the military. And we want to do stuff together...but there's a catch. I've also started to cut again. He really likes my boobs, has seen them before and stuff but now its different. Now there is cuts on them and idk what to do. Should I tell him?,idk how he will react considering he doesn't know most of my past.

[Noirtier]

The first thing I want to ask is this: Does he really like you, or is all he wants you for is sex? If he really does like you, and care about you, then he'll understand to the best of his ability. He will try and understand that things have been rough, and that cutting has helped you cope--even if it's not a healthy method of coping. And he'll still accept and love you for it regardless. But, and this, just from what you've said (and I could be wrong), seems to be the case, if he only wants you for sex and doesn't really like you or care for you in the way that you do for him, then he may not react well. If all he wants you for is your body, then when you tell him or when he finds out, he may just kind of leave. But you know what? If that's the case, that's not the kind of person who you need anyway. You need someone who loves you for you, not for your body or anything like that, and I know that you can find someone like that if that's the case. We're always here to help and support you hun! I hope that things turn out well for you.

[Mortal Coil]

As Clint said, there's a pretty good chance that he's only using you for sex. Of course, this isn't necessarily the case and I honestly hope that it isn't, but it's still possible. In this case, it's probably not a good idea to just mindlessly fuck him in my view, because you care about him and he just wants to use and lose you. If anything, that would put you in a really bad place emotionally.

However, if he genuinely and deeply likes you, then he'll be more understanding. He won't care too much. I hope for your sake that this is the scenario.

[welcome_to_chaos]

I told him shortly after talking to you guys. He said I was "too beautiful to have to do that". I really hope he wants a real relationship. Last time he came around he was very open about not wanting a relationship. Only sex. I'm hoping he's still being honest w ne. :/