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MattT
December 30th, 2012, 12:16 AM
So I'm bi and I really want to date a guy but honestly I dont know any bi or gay guys and I see cute guys at the mall, but I dont know how to approach them or ask a guy out. Any help?

Noirtier
December 30th, 2012, 12:47 AM
Just put yourself out there. Try joining a local GSA club if you can find one, or if your school has one. Participate in activities around your school, and in your community. Get to know people, and get involved in things. Make yourself open to new things, and to meeting new people. Put yourself out there, be yourself, and be patient. It will take some time, but if you have some patience, get yourself on the market, and just act like yourself around people, they'll come to like you, and eventually you'll be able to find someone who wants to date you. It just takes time, it doesn't happen right away. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope that you're able to find someone for you!

Also, I wouldn't suggest randomly going up to a guy and asking them out/if they're gay. Get to know them first :P

chillguy1234
December 30th, 2012, 08:15 AM
I understand it is hard to ask someone out because your not sure if their gay/bi, i have the same problem just try to befriend new peopl and keep your connections widely spread

Avenida105
December 31st, 2012, 02:37 AM
Believe me, I think gay people have it easy when it comes to finding relationships, all the gay people I know have been in one, yet I can say I've been friend zoned four times already, I might just be unlucky though.