Orgasm Anxiety, PLEASE HELP

[Gaodi]

I have anxiety about how good my orgasms feel.

I know that they feel good if I'm not worrying about them. But they don't feel good if I'm worried.

But sometimes I won't be worrying until I have actually start having an orgasm.

So how do I know when to orgasm, and when not to orgasm, if I don't know when I'm going to be worried or not.

Thoughts?

[gig-guy]

orgasm when it feels right...
i dont know what else to say!

[Aidoon123]

What the...?

[sdude]

Sounds like you just have the old "guilt" complex that everyone goes through...it's just most of us wait until AFTER we cum before it sets in...you need to realize this is just another NORMAL bodily function, one that comes with the most awesome benefit there is....a fabulous feeling we can give ourselves or others can help us get to...enjoy it, try to relax, and hopefully you will stop being anxious and really cut loose when you cum. It will just be that much better!!

[Black_Ops_jazzie]

just dont worry, relax, be cool! :D
im a girl, so thats all i can really say... o3o

[Troy35216]

i can't figure out what is that your worrying about. are you talking about feeling guilty? just relax and bust a nut.

[Canadian Dream]

I would suggest you try to masturbate when you feel the best so you have less chances of stressing out. If you start worrying, think of the positive aspects to an orgasm instead of the bad ones (ex. how it feels good instead of if your parents are going to find out or something like that).

[CharlieHorse]

Just calm down, and pretend that a gorgeous girl is laying on you and making out wiith you while you whack off. Just let yourself go, and release that inner sexual beast. Lol this sounds so stupid. But yeah


but what are you worried about?

[jlchill]

oh.. orgasm is my bestfriend. LOL :) chill!

[jgjkk]

stop thinking about it so much, just let it happen