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dommy99
December 28th, 2012, 06:34 PM
Right okay I'm 13 going through puberty and I'm confused about sexuallity right this is why - I watch straight porn and think about girls and have dated girls and had dreams of marrying and having kids with a girl but I used to be obsessed with this guy and I get turned on when I see boys underwear or like 'fit' looking people is it just hormones or I'm jelouse or what plus I'm fine with homosexuality and stuff its just I don't wanna be I wanna marry a waoman and things like that :'(
PinkFloyd
December 28th, 2012, 06:35 PM
Well you are 13, so it's probably just your hormones.
Magnus Bane
December 28th, 2012, 06:59 PM
It could just be your hormones don't worry
Noirtier
December 28th, 2012, 08:34 PM
Right okay I'm 13 going through puberty and I'm confused about sexuallity right this is why - I watch straight porn and think about girls and have dated girls and had dreams of marrying and having kids with a girl but I used to be obsessed with this guy and I get turned on when I see boys underwear or like 'fit' looking people is it just hormones or I'm jelouse or what plus I'm fine with homosexuality and stuff its just I don't wanna be I wanna marry a waoman and things like that :'(
From what you've said, it appears to me that you're straight. Everything you've mentioned are things that can be caused just by hormones raging during these teenage years, and I honestly don't think you have to worry about being gay. The key thing I'm seeing is simply a physical or sexual attraction to guys--which comes about often temporarily during the onset of puberty--not an emotional attraction which is needed to label oneself as "bi" or "gay." You like women, you want to marry a woman and have kids, so I'm gonna go with you're straight dude. Stop overthinking things, you're just making them more complicated :P
Lost in the Echo
December 28th, 2012, 10:14 PM
Yeah, I agree with what everyone above me said.
It appears that you're straight.
It's normal to get a little curious sometimes, just about everyone has a phase during puberty that makes them somewhat attracted to the same gender.
But yeah, based on what you said, you seem to be straight.
Canadian Dream
December 28th, 2012, 10:20 PM
It's probably just hormones. You might as well just be curious, it doesn't mean that you're gay.
Eth_94123
March 9th, 2013, 03:05 PM
Curiousity is a big part of puberty it's normal to maybe be confused :) you will find yourself in years to come ... You have to come to terms with what ever sexual orientation you may be :)
Shadow
March 9th, 2013, 04:47 PM
It appears to me that you are straight so I would say that it is just your hormones.
anyone50
March 10th, 2013, 10:23 AM
Don't worry your only 13 and the harmones are doing a lot of your thinking right now and by the time your old enough to get married you will have many different thoughts on sexuality. One thing i would like to advise is when you look at porn keep in mind this isn't reality so don't take your sexual cues from what you see there just be true to who you are.
spl23456
March 10th, 2013, 04:14 PM
It's perfectly normal to have a same-sex attraction at this age. Exploring them is a healthy response and does not prevent you from marrying a woman in the future.
Nellerin
March 10th, 2013, 04:36 PM
Right okay I'm 13 going through puberty and I'm confused about sexuallity right this is why - I watch straight porn and think about girls and have dated girls and had dreams of marrying and having kids with a girl but I used to be obsessed with this guy and I get turned on when I see boys underwear or like 'fit' looking people is it just hormones or I'm jelouse or what plus I'm fine with homosexuality and stuff its just I don't wanna be I wanna marry a waoman and things like that :'(
100% normal, a lot of teen guys are "curious" during their teenage hormone-filled puberty years. Thinking about another guy (especially at 13 years old) is not any indication of your sexual orientation.
justin 13
March 12th, 2013, 12:11 PM
Dude you r straight. I'm not just curious, I like boys.
Jakey116
March 14th, 2013, 08:50 PM
most likely just hormones buddy :) dw , give it a few years and youl find out for sure
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