Guilty?

[Swagg]

Is it normal to feel guilty after ejaculation? I always do, I'm Christian and I always feel like I have sinned. Although its like I only think if this after. The urge is too strong. . Is this normal?

[sdude]

Yes, whether it is guilt over religious beliefs, parents finding out, or just guilt over making yourself feel THAT good...it happens. You have to come to terms with your body being somewhat of a tool..You gotta do what the body needs...and it needs to cum. It isn't a sin, your parents did it (or do it, no matter how weird THAT seems...) and it does feel freakin awesome!! You will get over it...

[Troy35216]

the only time i felt guilty was when I realized the cat had watched me.

[PaPa]

Yeh,it's normal.I feel the same thing.

[FergusDunn]

Orgasm releases endorphins - most a feel good thing - however it does heighten awareness and maybe because of your beliefs you feel a guilt. Maybe you have to explore
ways to cope with that so that you do enjoy what is a natural experience.

[cowboys1]

Yeah it's ok. Happens to me sometimes.

[deanbrodi]

It's normal for the urge be unbearably strong. :)

The guilt is NOT normal among teens who are not christians.

But plenty of christian boys enjoy masturbation without any guilt.

Other boys feel guilt because of lies that are written in christian books, or 'cos of what they've been told by someone with a hang-up about sex. There is NO MENTION of masturbation in the bible. I know there's also no mention of smoking cigarettes in the bible either, but then, the bible also doesn't mention riding scooters etc.

Read "Christians can masturbate too", at
http://www.solotouch.com/res.php?t=a&num=12

Also, why would God put such a powerful urge to enjoy your new feelings into your body, if He didn't want you to masturbate? What a cruel, mean God He would be! That's like giving a friend a chocolate bar for a birthday gift, when you know full well he's allergic to chocolate.

When we masturbate, we nearly all imagine having sex with someone while doing it. When you masturbate, don't think of your imaginary partner as a "thing" for your own pleasure only. Instead, imagine you're also helping your "partner" to enjoy it too. That way, you are practicing a sharing-caring attitude, which will help you in a real relationship later.

[tovaris]

you shouldent feel guylty for doing something completly natural

[DerBear]

I can't explain why. However like people have said here. It is normal for Teenage boys, even older people to feel guilty afterwards regardless if they are religious or not. I don't think anyone needs to look too much into it and say its abnormal because everyone is different.

Overall it is quite normal. I don't know why, because like people have said here they've felt guilty and have had no religious beliefs. Its just something that happens. I think their is a defining factor to why we feel guilty. However it would be a case of "each to his own" meaning that everyone's factor that makes them feel guilty would be different.

[Swagg]

Thanks guys :D

[Ethan15]

I find religion only makes you feel good if you donate.

[DerBear]

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