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Sabercat
December 28th, 2012, 12:10 AM
Are you open with your friends about puberty, masturbation, dicks? I am but my friends aren't... what gives

Allain1996
December 28th, 2012, 12:14 AM
Yeah, me and my friends are open about that stuff.
I mean, we are all going through puberty, we all have dicks, and we all masturbate, so why not be open?

Sabercat
December 28th, 2012, 12:16 AM
Yeah, me and my friends are open about that stuff.
I mean, we are all going through puberty, we all have dicks, and we all masturbate, so why not be open?

Its like i try to throw in the (Over text) "Hey, jerk off lately?" Or "How Bigs your dick?" or "Do you shave your pubes?" Its like they get freaked out...

Allain1996
December 28th, 2012, 12:30 AM
Its like i try to throw in the (Over text) "Hey, jerk off lately?" Or "How Bigs your dick?" or "Do you shave your pubes?" Its like they get freaked out...

Well, your friends may be a little less open than mine are then.
Also, if your friends are talking about stuff like homework, cars, dogs, movies, or pink ponys, and then you are all of a sudden talking about dicks and masturbation, it may be seen as a little awkward too!

Sabercat
December 28th, 2012, 12:32 AM
Well, your friends may be a little less open than mine are then.
Also, if your friends are talking about stuff like homework, cars, dogs, movies, or pink ponys, and then you are all of a sudden talking about dicks and masturbation, it may be seen as a little awkward too!

haha, i try and ease into it

Troy35216
December 28th, 2012, 12:39 AM
maybe start with questions that are a little less personal and work your way up

Allain1996
December 28th, 2012, 12:40 AM
haha, i try and ease into it

Well, hopefully it will work out for you eventually!
Just don't ruin any friendships by constantly trying to talk about dicks and stuff! ;)

truckee98
December 28th, 2012, 12:45 AM
It really depends on the friend/friends. With some of them we just kind of joke around about stuff like puberty and masturbation, some I can have like serious talks with, and some it's just plane weird to talk about that stuff with... It all depends on your personal friends.

Matt_is_Awesome
December 28th, 2012, 12:54 AM
I'm open to a few of them. Trying to expand and its working lol

JackMiller341
December 28th, 2012, 01:27 AM
I only like to talk to my best friends about this kind of stuff. I've only told one friend I masturbated and it was very briefly. Wasnt awkward it was just two friends talking about life :)

Avenida105
December 28th, 2012, 01:52 AM
It depends, not all of my friends are, but I would say that in my group of close friends we are pretty open about it especially with my best friends. Last night I was at the mall with one of my best friends and we were just talking he asked me what was the craziest thing I've done, told him well the weirdest was jacking off in a pool, its ok with close friends, but if you go talk about it with random strangers then it will be awkward.

PaPa
December 28th, 2012, 03:54 AM
I'm open but not all my friends are

FergusDunn
December 28th, 2012, 04:36 AM
Yes I have some close buddies we are open about all sorts and thats good.

But I guess you just have to respect the fact that some guys are not and leave it out.

Swagg
December 28th, 2012, 04:46 AM
I am, sadly, my friends are not.

Abyssal Echo
December 28th, 2012, 05:21 AM
I can talk to my close friends about puberty and shit.

Thomas01
December 28th, 2012, 05:36 AM
I'm very open and I have a few guy friends open about it.

PinkFloyd
December 28th, 2012, 05:54 AM
No... Mine aren't either. The only person who's open about that kind of thing is my girlfriend. My guy friends mainly just joke around like idiots... Well I'm usually one of those idiots. ;P

Lost in the Echo
December 28th, 2012, 05:56 AM
Yeah, my friends are pretty open to talking about that.
We don't talk about that shit often though.

dommy99
December 28th, 2012, 07:00 AM
Well most of my mates are girls so I can't really talk to them about it would be a little awkward if we did but sometime I'f I talk to guys we bring it up

Swagg
December 28th, 2012, 07:43 AM
Sometimes that can be such idiots lol

darkie
December 28th, 2012, 07:51 AM
My friends are 90% girls, so it's not like I could talk about that with them. The other 10% guy friends are just acquaintances, so I'm not that close enough to discuss personal stuff like that with them.

Hypers
December 28th, 2012, 08:31 AM
Some of my friends are quite open, some aren't.

LiamShelley96
December 29th, 2012, 03:40 AM
now that we're a little older we do

MasonB
December 29th, 2012, 10:10 AM
some of my friends are cool about talking about jerking off and stuff but some never talk about it.

Biba
December 29th, 2012, 01:05 PM
Me and my friends are quite open to it. we talk about masturbating, shaving pubes, having sex and so on

ThatGuy69
December 29th, 2012, 01:18 PM
I want to be more open with my male friends, not just my friends as well but most of them are girls anyway

Jmann
December 29th, 2012, 01:48 PM
I am pretty open with my friends however i live in a pretty liberal place. You're friends might be a little more conservative than you are and haven't had the bromance talk like you want to. It's all morals and their point of view.

PetrusRomanus
March 2nd, 2013, 01:57 AM
Yeah whenever we are together.

swimBoy
March 5th, 2013, 01:15 PM
I was open with my friends and said I jacked, boy that was a mistake they all laughed and I felt really bad.

Cook my Sock
March 5th, 2013, 01:20 PM
Are you open with your friends about puberty, masturbation, dicks? I am but my friends aren't... what gives

Same for me.

Stuey1
March 5th, 2013, 01:29 PM
I want to but they say no

Celtic.
March 5th, 2013, 01:34 PM
well theres a girl i know and i talk to her about that jerking off and stuff. It doesn't bother her cuz shes a lesbian

pollier92
March 5th, 2013, 01:46 PM
they might just need some time. me and my friends are open about it

bright
March 5th, 2013, 02:00 PM
It depends l...with certain friends I feel eally uncomfortable talkin about stuff like that but with others I am totally ok and for some reason I always get a boner when talking about that kind of stuff with them!

Leon03
March 5th, 2013, 02:24 PM
It's two of my friends plus my gf I can talk openly about sexual and puberty things. All the others blush and/or start to giggle as soon as the subject comes up :(

Swagging god
March 5th, 2013, 03:11 PM
I am open and most of my friends are too.

MAD0325
March 5th, 2013, 04:09 PM
I talk to some of my guy friends about that stuff often when I hang out with them.....but I hang around girls all the time so I don't do it often, but I'm totally open to the topic

jack787
March 5th, 2013, 04:25 PM
I am, but my friends are not.

Skitty
March 5th, 2013, 05:19 PM
I talk to my friends about this kind of stuff all the time. I think it makes them feel awkward to a point, but they've gotten used to it now. :3

Catholic Guy
March 5th, 2013, 05:29 PM
Yeah I'm pretty open with anyone

connor156
March 5th, 2013, 05:39 PM
me and my freinds kind of talk a fair bit about this and i wish we did it more it feels like were are really bonding when we do this

just breifly bring it up now and again and they probaly to scare to talk about cause they are afraid of being judged but if you start talking a bit about it they will most likely follow on

btw dont critizie them about what they say other wise they wont talk about it at all
any way we all do weird things

Tinker
March 5th, 2013, 05:48 PM
I am, my friends aren't

JAT14
March 5th, 2013, 09:22 PM
A am but not my friends

justin 13
March 6th, 2013, 12:11 PM
yeah but my friends always talk about chicks ..and i am gay, i cant come out so i play the straight role..sadly.

swimBoy
March 6th, 2013, 01:56 PM
Just thinking about jack'en will give me a bone, so talking about jack'en will enven make me bone faster.

SoRandom
March 7th, 2013, 05:50 AM
Its a good thing there is a place called VT.. so you can recover, learn and grow together. haha! :D

aboy
July 27th, 2013, 10:53 PM
all of our good and funny stories involve jerking off so the conversation flows naturally...

ComfortableInChaos
July 28th, 2013, 02:19 AM
I do talk about it online, but not to my friends at school or anything. I do want to, I would like to, but a lot of my friends are homophobic and I'm bisexual... so whatever I guess.

Lost in the Echo
July 28th, 2013, 02:56 AM
all of our good and funny stories involve jerking off so the conversation flows naturally...

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