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alliah101
December 27th, 2012, 11:38 PM
is it wrong to like someone else when you are currently dating someone? i like this girl but she is already dating someone and she keeps sending me mixed signals. She flirts with me i just push it away because i have a gf already its getting harder now because i like her. A Lot. i don't flirt with her i don't send suggestive comments or anything but idk if it is wrong to like her. i would never ever cheat on my gf but i still like this other girl. if i told my gf i liked someone else she would dump me even if we didn't do anything. i just idk what to do.

ali98
December 27th, 2012, 11:43 PM
is it wrong to like someone else when you are currently dating someone? i like this girl but she is already dating someone and she keeps sending me mixed signals. She flirts with me i just push it away because i have a gf already its getting harder now because i like her. A Lot. i don't flirt with her i don't send suggestive comments or anything but idk if it is wrong to like her. i would never ever cheat on my gf but i still like this other girl. if i told my gf i liked someone else she would dump me even if we didn't do anything. i just idk what to do.

Liking people other than your own partner is just human. Just be respectful of all potentially involved persons. That holds unless you REALLY have real intention to get closer to the person you really like. In this case a serious meditation is due; and a talk with your current partner is a must (otherwise you are soon becoming a cheater)

ackmedsgirl666
December 27th, 2012, 11:52 PM
If your girlfriend dumps you over liking another girl she sounds controlling
And relationships like that usually lead nowhere (no offense)
No- there is nothing wrong with liking another girl as long as your not flirting
Back or displaying any behaviors towards her and your letting your feelings slide there is nothing wrong. Just if you love your current girlfriend you would do everything to
Not fuck that up.

anyone50
December 28th, 2012, 06:08 PM
Have you ever heard the saying a bird in the hand is woth 2 in the bush. It's true. you have a gf and she is already dating someone more often than not this scenario ends badly for all involved

CharlieFinley
December 29th, 2012, 02:57 AM
That said, if you feel like you're just dating your girlfriend because you like being in a relationship, I would encourage you to try new things with new people.


Not cheating, because cheating is bad. Break up with your girlfriend, if you feel that way.

Abyssal Echo
December 29th, 2012, 03:04 AM
theres nothing wrong with liking her as a friend. unless your intentions are to be more than friends then since you already have a girl friend it would be wrong.

hscott729
December 29th, 2012, 09:27 AM
i'd say try to like her as a friend, but dont do naything while either of u are involve with people

and about he mixed signals, i always get those wrong :P

White
December 29th, 2012, 04:23 PM
I don't think its very healthy to like someone else while you're in a relationship. If you really feel bad about it tell the girl that is flirting with you "Hey, I'm in a relationship with a girl I really like/love. I still want to be friends, but I don't want to end up ruining my relationship with my current girlfriend" if she understands, great. If she doesn't then you might have to stop talking to her in general, if you really like your current girlfriend.