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alliah101
December 27th, 2012, 03:25 AM
when i was in 10th grade i was raped.. by my boyfriend.. i never told anyone except the current person i am dating now.. i just found out the other day that the same guy who did this to me did this to another girl except she told.. now he is in jail. i feel like this is my fault it happened to her if i had told then maybe i could have spared her that you know. i want to tell my parents..mind that i am a senior now and i don't know what they will say or if it even matters. he knows what he did because shortly after he would make snide little comments around me.. he broke up with me shortly after the incident because i would not let him touch me and for some reason he couldn't understand why. my parents don't listen to me but i want them to know. so that i can have some closure but i don't know how they will react... i just don't know if i should tell..

ReginaGeorge
December 27th, 2012, 03:33 AM
You should tell your parents, lovely. They can help you carry the weight of this. It doesn't matter how long ago it was, it still matters. Rape is never ever okay. What happened to the other girl was not your fault, it was 100% his and now he's facing the consequences of that. I'm sorry this happened to you, and hope you don't have to face anything like it again. Stay safe. x

alliah101
December 27th, 2012, 04:04 AM
thank you. means a lot.